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09/18/2026

**Your child doesn't need you to become their teacher.**

But they DO need you to stay engaged in their learning.

One simple habit parents can start at home:

Give your child 20 intentional minutes.

It doesn't have to be complicated.

📖 Read something together.
🧠 Review something they're learning.
✍🏽 Practice a skill.
🗣️ **Then ask your child to TEACH YOU something they learned.**

Don't just ask:

**“What did you learn at school today?”**

Say:

**“Teach me something you learned today.”**

Let them explain it to you in their own words.

This simple practice gives your child an opportunity to **retrieve what they learned, organize their thoughts, explain their understanding, and practice communicating what they know.**

And here's the part I really want parents to understand:

**You don't have to know the answer.**

Let your child become the teacher for a few minutes.

You may learn something too.

Twenty minutes may not sound like much.

But **20 intentional minutes every day adds up.**

We can't expect schools to carry the entire responsibility for our children's development.

**What happens at home matters.**

Our children need us to be present.
They need us to pay attention.
They need us to know what they're learning.
They need us to notice when they're struggling.
They need us to celebrate when they're growing.

**Don't just ask your child what they learned.**

**Let them teach you.**

I'm going to be sharing more practical, research-informed strategies parents can use at home to help bridge the gap and support our children's growth.

Because our children's future is too important to leave to one system alone.

**PARENTS WE HAVE TO STOP WAITING.**The literacy challenge facing our children isn't confined to Fresno.It isn't confine...
09/14/2026

**PARENTS WE HAVE TO STOP WAITING.**

The literacy challenge facing our children isn't confined to Fresno.
It isn't confined to California.
**It's a national concern.**

And the numbers should make all of us pay attention:

🇺🇸 **NATIONALLY:** In 2024, only **31% of fourth-graders** performed at or above the NAEP Proficient level in reading. **40% performed below even the NAEP Basic level.**

🌴 **CALIFORNIA:** On California's 2024–25 statewide ELA assessment, **48.8% of students met or exceeded the state's grade-level standard** (26.5% Proficient + 22.3% Advanced). That means **51.2% did not.**

🏫 **FRESNO:** Fresno Unified has identified **Early Literacy** and **Literacy Intervention** as two of its major district goals. In June 2024, **48% of first-graders were proficient in literacy** according to iReady. The district's goal is to reach **80% by June 2030.**

And Fresno Unified reports that among 3rd - 8th graders who were **more than one year behind in ELA**, only **30% made more than one year's growth in 2024**. The district has set a goal of reaching 50% by 2030.

**We know there is a problem.**

So the question I keep coming back to isn't simply:

*“Who's responsible?”* 👉👈👆👇

It's:

**“What are we going to do about it and who is building the solutions?”**

I've spent years working with children and families, and I learned early that children don't need adults simply telling us they're behind.

They need **intentional intervention.**

They need adults who can identify the gap, understand what is contributing to it, and create an environment where the child can actually grow.

When I operated **Jalen N Friends Daycare**, I didn't wait for someone else to determine whether the children in my care would be academically prepared.

Reading.
Writing.
Foundational mathematics.
Critical thinking.

These were intentionally developed.

The same principles I applied in my daycare program were also applied in my own home, and I've seen firsthand the impact that intentional academic development can have on children's futures.

**I didn't have a billion-dollar education budget.**

I had knowledge, intentionality, consistency, and a willingness to do the work.

Now imagine what becomes possible when that same intentionality is paired with the **resources, infrastructure, research, data, partnerships, and funding** available through our educational institutions, government agencies, nonprofits, and philanthropic organizations.

That's the conversation I'm interested in.

Not simply identifying the problem.

**Building solutions.**

And building them at a scale that can reach the children who need them most.

Because our children cannot wait for another report, another committee, another initiative, or another five-year plan.

**They're growing up right now.**

There are people across education, government, philanthropy, and community organizations with the resources to make transformational investments in our children's futures.

And there are people with the **experience, ideas, and demonstrated ability to develop children.**

**We need to connect those two.**

I'm interested in being part of that conversation.

Follow Jalen N Friends as I share practical, research-informed strategies parents can implement at home to strengthen reading, writing, critical thinking, and academic confidence.

I'll also be sharing observations, ideas, and solutions aimed at helping families, educators, and community leaders work together to better support our children.

03/27/2026

Not enough schools have leaders who truly care for the well-being and future of every child. Too often, bias shows up and children with bright futures can be misunderstood, overlooked, or even targeted instead of supported.

And when you try to go up the chain for help, it can feel like systems protect themselves. Even when someone is replaced, the mindset doesn’t always change.

So whether it’s blindness or repeated patterns, one thing is clear:

Stop waiting for systems to do what only we can consistently do as parents.

We must be present. We must be discerning. We must advocate.

And above all... we must cover our children in prayer.

Because while systems may fail, God never does.

It’s our responsibility to protect, guide, and intercede for the future entrusted to us.

Get in your prayer closet. ✝️👑🙏

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03/19/2026

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03/04/2026

Parents,

Teach your children about God.

And no, I am not talking about routine church attendance or empty religion.
I’m talking about helping them develop a real relationship with Him.

📖 Book of Proverbs 22:6

“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”

Training is intentional.
It’s modeling prayer.
It’s demonstrating integrity.
It’s showing them how to trust God in hard seasons.

Because one day, you won’t be here physically.

But He will.

He will guide them.
He will lead them.
He will comfort them. ✝️👑

And that leads to legacy.

📖 Book of Proverbs 13:22

“A good man leaveth an inheritance to his children's children…”

A “good man” isn’t just financially successful.
He’s righteous. He’s wise.

Inheritance is more than money.

It’s:
• Faith
• Character
• Wisdom
• A name that carries integrity

“Children’s children” means generational thinking... not temporary gain.

This verse is about legacy, not luxury.

📖 Book of Psalm 112:1 - 2

“The seed of the righteous shall be mighty upon earth…”

What you build spiritually today becomes strength in them tomorrow.

Don’t just leave them assets.

Leave them anchored.

02/16/2026

John 14:6 (KJV)
Jesus saith unto him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.”

After seasons of silence and refinement, my heart burns for this.

May the Spirit of the Living God sweep across the earth with holy fire and holy love.
May hearts that have grown cold be reignited.
May minds clouded by deception be flooded with truth.
May leaders be gripped with wisdom.
May families be restored.
May the broken encounter the Healer.

“Not by might, nor by power, but by My Spirit, saith the Lord.” - Zechariah 4:6

Holy Spirit, encamp over the nations as You did over the waters in the beginning.
Hover over chaos and bring divine order.
Expose darkness. Establish righteousness.
Release conviction where there is rebellion and comfort where there is grief.

Let revival begin in us - not just around us.
Let awakening start in our homes before it fills stadiums.
Let Your glory be revealed in the earth.

May the Spirit of the Living God bless our world, and may we be vessels through which that blessing flows.

- Prayer & convictions from the mother behind the Jalen n Friends brand ✝️👑🔥🙏🏽🌎

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