07/19/2022
My significant other is alwaayys dropping gems of wisdom on me. 💎
At this point, he’s like my own personal life coach lol. 🤗🫂
But we were having a conversation about our latest business ventures, and I shared with him that I’m honestly a little scared to start something new.
And one thing he said really stuck with me. 📝
One thing that has gotten him so far in life, and helped him to become such a successful multi-business owner is that he doesn’t give himself time to second-guess his plans.
🗣 “If it’s something you really want, then you just have to go for it. Believe that you’re capable and put in the work. Everything else will fall into place.“
— Because when you start doubting your plans, you allow yourself to hesitate. You end up not following through. And you end up being regretful of the opportunities that you missed out on.
I am an over thinker, and through the years I have created a bad habit of second-guessing myself, and then somehow finding a way not to listen to my first mind.
And just like he said, I have regretted it many, many times! 👎
Part of the problem was a major lack of confidence and the belief that I CAN succeed.
My anxiety has told me that my plans won’t work, or that it’s too soon to execute on my goals, OR that I don’t have the right experience to have a successful outcome. 🥴🫣 Which is completely untrue.
What IS true is that our achievements start from WITHIN.
Our mindset plays a giant role in how successful or unsuccessful we will be. 🧠
W/ a fixed mindset of SELF-DOUBT or fear, it’s most likely that your plans will fall through, or that your business won’t succeed.
On the other hand, if you have a GROWTH mindset that is very positive, you stay dedicated and consistent (and you believe that you are worthy of good things now and in the future), you’re bound to reach your goals in due time. 🪴
So, if you find yourself struggling to start that business, or apply for that new position, I challenge you to shift your mindset to a more positive and uplifting one.
Start believing in yourself❗️ Start believing that you are worthy of all the good things you want in life and watch how your life begins to transform. ✨