02/22/2026
I want to share something personal.
Last week, I paused a brand I built 16 years ago. It wasn’t a business in the traditional sense. It was the container for thousands of hours of advocacy work, leadership, and relationships.
At the same time, I will be one credit away from finishing my PhD in May 2026 and completely out of money.
This isn’t a dramatic announcement. It’s a defining moment. A right versus right decision.
Do I finish what I started, or do I choose financial stability and simplify my path back into traditional employment?
On Substack, I wrote about what it feels like to stand inside that tension. About identity, sunk costs, institutional barriers, and what courage actually looks like when it’s quiet.
If you’ve ever faced a decision where both options cost something real, this might resonate.
https://open.substack.com/pub/courageoussteps/p/the-courage-to-pause?r=15guoi&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true