10/20/2026
I got to see something yesterday that was deeply affecting to me: a room full of well-loved, worn copies of The Congruent Leader. š„¹
Over the past five months, a group of leaders from the City of Frisco has been reading the book together. Yesterday, I had the opportunity to join them for a live Q&A and hear about their experience. How cool is that?!
For real, one of my favorite parts was seeing their books! I'm so used to seeing crisp and shiny new copies when they arrive in the mail or when someone picks one up at a conference bookstore. But these books had clearly been read, carried around, highlighted, and revisited. And I can't tell you how special that was to see. š
What meant even more was hearing how they'd taken the ideas beyond the pages of the book.
They'd been using the companion resources, including the Leadership Eulogy exercise, which asks you to think about how you want to be remembered as a leader. Several shared just how challenging that exercise had been (in the best possible way!), and hearing that was so affirming, because that was my intention when I created it. šÆ
When I wrote this book, my hope was that it would encourage people to slow down, reflect, and have meaningful conversations about the way they lead. Getting to see that happen in a room full of people five months into their journey was such a gift.
Thank you, Rachel, for bringing this group together, and thank you to everyone at the City of Frisco for inviting me into the conversation. What a special afternoon! ā¤ļø