06/08/2026
Day 8 of 30 Days of Talking About Things the Salon Industry Needs to Hear.
Today, Iām shifting gears.
For the first 7 days, Iāve talked about the industry, pricing, leadership, social media, and all the things I think hairdressers need to hear.
But the truth is, none of those conversations exist without this story.
The story before hair.
The story before Destroy The Hairdresser.
The story before I knew who I was.
Over the next three videos, Iām going to share something Iāve never fully shared publicly before.
A story about childhood trauma, addiction, sexuality, fear, belonging, and ultimately how the salon industry changed the trajectory of my life.
For a long time, I convinced myself these parts of my story didnāt matter.
Now I realize theyāre the reason I care so deeply about this industry and the people in it.
This video is Part 1.
Posting it scares the hell out of me.
But if thereās a young person out there struggling to find themselvesā¦
If thereās a little gaybie out there feeling aloneā¦
If thereās someone carrying secrets, shame, fear, or pain and wondering if life ever gets betterā¦
I hope these next few videos show you that it does.
Not perfectly.
But it does.
And because this story wouldnāt be complete without them:
Jess and Cara, thank you for standing by my side during one of the hardest chapters of my life and somehow still loving me 20 years later. š¤ .wildflowerwoman
And , thank you for spending the last decade encouraging me to tell this story when I wasnāt sure I was ready.
Part 1 starts now. šš¤š£