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Not Forgotten Preservation Preserving headstones is not just about physical restoration; it is about honoring memories and shared histories.

With 28 years of combined experience, Mark and I ensure these meaningful testaments remain intact for future generations. About Us 🔹

At Not Forgotten Preservation, we understand that every gravestone, monument, and memorial hold a unique story—a testament to lives lived, memories cherished, and love that endures beyond time. With a combined experience of 28 years, our founders, Mark and Karaline VanDiepenbos, have dedicated themselves to safeguarding these precious legacies. For the past fourteen years, we have been working diligently on headstone preservation in our township's five cemeteries, honing our expertise in headstone cleaning and repair. Our Journey 🔹 Mark VanDiepenbos, a master stone carver since 2004, brings his passion for natural stone to every restoration project. His discerning eye and meticulous craftsmanship ensure that each headstone stands the test of time. Mark’s commitment extends beyond the physical—it’s about preserving the essence of those who rest beneath these hallowed grounds. Karaline VanDiepenbos, alongside Mark for the past 14 years, specializes in gentle headstone cleaning. With reverence and care, she removes dirt, lichens, and weathered deposits, revealing the inscriptions that connect us to the past. Karaline’s dedication echoes through the ages, ensuring that memories remain vivid, and hearts find solace. At Not Forgotten Preservation, we use safe and effective biological, non-abrasive cleaning techniques to gently remove dirt, moss, lichens, and weathered deposits from headstones, preserving the integrity and beauty of each monument. We offer a range of services including headstone cleaning, site care, and additional services such as artificial flower placement, fresh flowers, and mementos. Below are our cleaning packages:

Platinum Package Three Visits Per Year

Headstone Cleaning

Small (up to 24 inches) - $125.00

Medium (24-36 inches) - $155.00

Large (36-48 inches) - $185.00

Extra Large (48+ inches) - Custom Quotes

Site Care - $30.00 (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Overgrowth Removal

Grass Edging and Trimming

Vase and Urn Cleaning

Additional Services (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Artificial Flower / Mementos (additional charges apply)

Fresh Flowers (additional charges)

Other Mementos (additional charges)

*American Flags placed on all Veteran’s and First-Responder sites at no additional charge. Silver Package One Visit Per Year

Headstone Cleaning

Small (up to 24 inches) - $60.00

Medium (24-36 inches) - $75.00

Large (36-48 inches) - $100.00

Extra Large (48+ inches) - Custom Quotes

Site Care - $30.00 (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Overgrowth Removal

Grass Edging and Trimming

Vase and Urn Cleaning

Additional Services (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Artificial Flowers / Mementos (additional charges)

Fresh Flowers (additional charges)

Other Mementos (additional charges)

*American Flags placed on all Veteran’s and First-Responder sites at no additional charge. Gold Package Two Visits Per Year

Headstone Cleaning

Small (up to 24 inches) - $90.00

Medium (24-36 inches) - $115.00

Large (36-48 inches) - $150.00

Extra Large (48+ inches) - Custom Quotes

Site Care - $30.00 (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Overgrowth Removal

Grass Edging and Trimming

Vase and Urn Cleaning

Additional Services (When combined with headstone cleaning)

Artificial Flower Placement (additional charges)

Fresh Flowers (additional charges)

Other Mementos (additional charges)

*American Flags placed on all Veteran’s and First-Responder sites at no additional charge.

We’ve been a little quiet lately, but for a good reason — Mark and I have been working on something new for Not Forgotte...
03/06/2026

We’ve been a little quiet lately, but for a good reason — Mark and I have been working on something new for Not Forgotten Preservation. On Monday, March 9, 2026, we’re launching a meaningful new memorial option on our website.
It’s a 2" x 3" sublimated aluminum plaque that features a photo of your loved one and a custom QR code linking to the memorial page of your choice — Find A Grave, BillionGraves, or a family ancestry site. You send us the photo and link, and we format everything to fit the plaque.
Base price: $18.95.
A small way to keep family stories alive and make sure the people we honor are never forgotten.

12/18/2025

Echoes of Four Mothers: A Thousand Year Thread Through Ashkenazi History
History sometimes leaves us grand monuments, carved in stone. Other times, it leaves us something quieter — a genetic whisper, a thread so fine it can only be traced through the mitochondria passed from mother to child.
Among Ashkenazi Jews, that whisper takes the form of four maternal lineages. Genetic studies show that around 40% of Ashkenazi Jews descend from four women who lived in Europe roughly a thousand years ago. Their names are lost, their stories unrecorded, yet their legacy endured through centuries of migration, persecution, rebuilding, and renewal.
These women lived in a world far smaller than ours — villages clustered along rivers, marketplaces filled with dialects now forgotten, families carrying their traditions from one generation to the next. Through wars, expulsions, and the fragile survival of small communities, their maternal lines persisted. Not because they were queens or prophets, but because they endured.
Their descendants would eventually form one of the most culturally rich and intellectually influential Jewish communities in the world. And woven through that history is the reminder that sometimes the most powerful legacies come from people whose names never made it into the chronicles.
A Light That Didn’t Go Out: The Hanukkah Story
Long before those four women lived, another story of endurance took shape — the story remembered each year during Hanukkah.
Hanukkah traces its origins to 164 BCE, when the Maccabees reclaimed the Temple in Jerusalem after defeating the Seleucid Empire. The holiday commemorates both the military victory and the rededication of the Temple — a moment of spiritual reclamation after years of suppression.
Later tradition added the well known miracle: a small amount of consecrated oil, enough for one day, burned for eight days, long enough to prepare more. Whether one views it as miracle, metaphor, or memory, the symbolism is unmistakable — light persisting when it had every reason to go out.
Hanukkah is not a biblical holiday; its story comes from the Books of the Maccabees and later rabbinic writings. Yet it became one of the most beloved Jewish celebrations, a festival of resilience, identity, and the quiet insistence that even in dark times, light can return.
A Shared Theme: Survival, Continuity, and Quiet Strength.

I went visiting today the Garrison Monument has come a long way from when I started cleaning it.
04/22/2025

I went visiting today the Garrison Monument has come a long way from when I started cleaning it.

04/20/2025

At Not Forgotten Preservation, Mark VanDiepenbos led the careful resetting of the Jacob and Anna Linderman stone at Whitehead Cemetery in New Paris, Indiana. The project involved stabilizing the foundation to ensure long-lasting support, using precise leveling and secure resetting techniques. This meticulous process reflects our commitment to preserving history and honoring the legacies of loved ones with professionalism and care.

04/12/2025

Some people in life continue to hold hurt and resentment toward those who have passed away, choosing to carry their pain rather than release it. While it’s impossible to change how they feel, it’s important to set boundaries when they overstep, particularly if they perpetuate harmful rumors or hearsay about someone dearly loved.

When a life has been filled with traumatic experiences—emotional, sexual, verbal, or otherwise—and that person has passed on, they deserve to rest in peace. Speaking ill of the deceased, especially in front of their children and grandchildren, is in poor taste and perpetuates cycles of abuse. This behavior risks leaving children with internalized feelings of inadequacy, believing they are somehow at fault for the struggles of their loved one. Additionally, a child may fear that they have inherited the same traits or struggles as the deceased, further damaging their self-esteem and creating a lasting sense of doubt about their own identity and worth.

Many factors contribute to a person’s life and struggles, and reducing their story to a narrow perspective ignores the full context of their experiences. It’s crucial to either speak with compassion and understanding or to remain silent. Continuing to denigrate the deceased only adds to the trauma they faced during their life.

It’s understandable to feel reactive in the moment, but it is equally important to stand firm in one’s feelings with dignity, peace, and respect. When someone speaks inappropriately about a deceased loved one, addressing it calmly and assertively reinforces that such behavior is unacceptable. Highlighting the roles of those who perpetuated harm until the deceased’s final days serves as a crucial reminder of the lasting impact of such actions. Their struggles often began long before their children were born, and it’s essential to break the cycle of harm rather than continue it. Standing one’s ground with grace protects the memory of the loved one while promoting understanding and compassion in these conversations.

A few minutes, some work and a stranger is remembered. these both will become cleaner as time passes.
11/09/2024

A few minutes, some work and a stranger is remembered. these both will become cleaner as time passes.

09/22/2024

Some of you know that Mark and I will be celebrating 20 years of stone carving next month. Time really flies when you’re having fun! Over the years, we’ve taken numerous stone restoration classes. In the past 5 or 6 years, Mark has felt a strong calling to preserve the older headstones in our local cemeteries. My passion for this work began with Wilbur, Ella, and Solomon in Whitehead Cemetery—a long story best saved for another time.

Older cemeteries are true works of skill and art. There are very few monument companies today that can replicate the craftsmanship of the past. Those that still do hand and chisel work are worth every penny they charge.

Once a monument or headstone is completed, the monument company’s job is done. The upkeep of the stone is left to the living, usually the family. I learned some 18 or 19 years ago in my second headstone restoration class that you can ruin a stone by using the wrong cleaning products. My first headstone restoration class taught me everything you’re not supposed to do in headstone preservation.

I usually write my articles for Not Forgotten Preservation and our pages that showcase our preservation work. However, I believe the article below should be shared on my personal page. I think everyone interested in preserving their ancestral monuments and headstones should know how to do so without causing damage.

One of my pet peeves when it comes to cleaning monuments and headstones is when someone offers their services at a cost and promises immediate results. This is a glaring indication that they are using harsh chemicals, such as bleach or ammonia. While it’s understandable that people expect immediate results when paying for a cleaning service, this expectation should not apply to historical monuments and headstones. Generally, a biological cleaner will start showing results within a few days, weeks, or even months, depending on how soiled the stone is or how much biological growth is present.

Now, I’d like to compare the use of harsh cleaning chemicals versus biological cleaners for cleaning monuments and headstones. My goal is to educate and inform people on the proper cleaning techniques so that these monuments and headstones can be preserved and enjoyed for centuries to come.

Harsh Cleaning Chemicals:

Examples: Bleach, ammonia, hydrochloric acid

Pros:

• Quick Results: These chemicals can show immediate cleaning effects, removing surface stains, mold, and mildew within minutes.

• Effective on Tough Stains: They can be very effective at removing tough, ingrained stains and biological growth.

Cons:
• Surface Damage: Harsh chemicals can erode the surface of the stone, causing pitting, roughness, and long-term damage.

• Discoloration: They can cause discoloration or bleaching of the stone, leading to an unnatural appearance.

• Weakened Inscriptions: The chemicals can wear down inscriptions and engravings, making them less legible over time.

• Environmental Impact: These chemicals can be harmful to the surrounding environment, including plants and wildlife.

• Health Risks: They pose health risks to the person applying them, requiring protective gear and careful handling.

Biological Cleaning Products:

Example: D/2 Biological Solution

Pros:

• Gentle on Stone: Biological cleaners are designed to be gentle, preserving the integrity of the stone without causing damage.

• Long-Term Effectiveness: They continue to work overtime, providing a thorough and lasting clean by penetrating deep into the stone.

• Safe for Environment: These products are typically environmentally friendly, posing no harm to surrounding plants and wildlife.

• No Health Risks: They are safer for the person applying them, usually requiring minimal protective gear.

Cons:
• Slower Results: Biological cleaners take longer to show results, often requiring days, weeks, or even months to fully clean the stone.

• Multiple Applications: Severely soiled stones may need multiple applications to achieve the desired level of cleanliness.

• Cost: They can be more expensive than common household chemicals, though the benefits often outweigh the cost.

Summary:
While harsh cleaning chemicals offer quick and effective results, they come with significant risks to the stone, the environment, and personal health. Biological cleaning products, on the other hand, provide a safer, more sustainable approach, preserving the stone’s integrity and ensuring long-term cleanliness, albeit at a slower pace. For historical monuments and headstones, the gentler, more preservation-friendly option is generally recommended.

09/20/2024

Recently, we learned that a local company was hired by a descendant to replace the foundations of two ancestral monuments. It’s truly commendable that someone would invest significantly to care for their ancestors’ monuments. However, it was quite disheartening to see the bases of the headstones encased in concrete. While I could delve into the chemical incompatibility of concrete with certain types of stone and how it can deteriorate a monument over time, I believe I’ve covered that before. Instead, I’ll discuss additional reasons why using concrete for resetting foundations is a poor choice, hoping to educate others on the proper methods for preserving their ancestors’ monuments and headstones.

Gravel vs. Concrete to Reset a Monument / Headstone Foundation

Using gravel instead of concrete to reset a headstone foundation offers several advantages, particularly in terms of drainage, flexibility, and preservation:
1. Improved Drainage
• Gravel: Acts as a permeable layer that allows water to drain away from the headstone, reducing the risk of water pooling and freeze-thaw damage.
• Concrete: Is impermeable and can trap moisture against the headstone, leading to increased weathering and potential damage.
2. Flexibility and Movement
• Gravel: Provides a stable yet flexible base that can accommodate slight ground movements without causing stress to the headstone. This helps prevent cracking and shifting.
• Concrete: Is rigid and can cause structural stress on the headstone, especially if the ground shifts or settles over time.
3. Ease of Installation and Maintenance
• Gravel: Easier to install and adjust. If a headstone needs to be reset or moved in the future, gravel can be easily removed and replaced.
• Concrete: Requires more effort and specialized equipment to install. Once set, it is difficult to remove without potentially damaging the headstone.
4. Cost-Effectiveness
• Gravel: Generally, more affordable than concrete, making it a cost-effective option for resetting headstone foundations.
• Concrete: More expensive due to the materials and labor involved in installation.
5. Preservation of Historical Integrity
• Gravel: More compatible with traditional preservation methods, maintaining historical and aesthetic integrity of the cemetery.
• Concrete: Can detract from the historical appearance and may not be suitable for preserving headstones.
By using gravel, you ensure better drainage, flexibility, and ease of maintenance, all of which contribute to the long-term preservation and stability of the headstone.

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New Paris, IN
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