07/23/2024
Part 1 of 3. "SEASONS."
They both have doctoral degrees. They would like to be called by their first names, David and Beverly, and not their titles because although they respect people being called by their professional appellations, titles can sometimes - divide us. They are very, very comfortable just being themselves. They are just regular people. They are both two broken people. They each have a story. It is their story that has made them who they are. They have both been on a journey of healing. Their capacity to help others has been related to their own journey of healing for themselves.
She, Beverly, is the second child of four children. She was raised in the inner city. Her father was a gambler. Her mother was very co-dependent and tried to please him and to do what would make him happy. She was molested at the age of three by one of her mother's brothers. Her mother was from a family of nine children who were all drug addicts. That set her up for a lot of pain. Moreover, at the age of thirteen a nineteen-year-old man told her she was the best thing since sliced bread. No one had ever paid attention to her before. He told her that there was a chance in a million that she would get pregnant the first time and she was that chance in a million because she got pregnant. Subsequently, at the age of fourteen she had a baby boy. She was kicked out of school. She was home and started receiving junior guide religious lessons from someone who came to her door from a church and then began to receive Bible studies through correspondence.
She was determined to go to church when she had the baby and when she had her son she went to church. She immersed herself in church activities, but did not have a lot of connections with the young people. The older women took her under their wings, then she got a nursing degree. She loved school because that is how she defined herself. She was planning to be a doting grandmother once her son got older and had his own child and follow her son around and get her master's degree and her PHD because education defined her. At this time clinical depression really hit her because she had not addressed her own pain of abuse and having her baby at 14. Resultingly, she was full of pain. She was studying the Scriptures and the sanctuary and immersed herself in it. God was merciful! Her depression lifted!
She had determined not to get married, but met David. He was what she wanted, but not in the right package, but after two dates God impressed her that he was the man that He wanted for her and her life took a hard left turn! She got her master's degree, got married to David AND also got a doctoral degree! She now has a private counseling practice in Berrien Springs, Michigan and she jointly counsels and does seminars in person and remotely with her husband David - BOTH BEING USED BY GOD TO HELP HEAL AND SET OTHERS FREE WHO ARE WOUNDED, HURTING AND BOUND - JUST AS THEY BOTH ONCE WERE!
Did God really predict that a way of healing would come for a world wracked by mental disorders, depression, anxiety, fear, anger, loneliness and grief? If ...