10/10/2025
There’s no denying that Virginia’s upcoming statewide elections feature the most diverse slate of candidates in the Commonwealth’s history. On the Republican ticket, a Black woman is running for governor, an openly gay man for lieutenant governor, and a Hispanic man—born to an immigrant parent—for attorney general. The Democrats mirror this diversity: a white woman for governor, an Asian American for lieutenant governor, and a Black man for attorney general.
On the surface, this mosaic of race, gender, and background is something to celebrate. But for me, what’s even more revealing is how this year’s candidates underscore a deeper truth—diversity alone doesn’t mean shared values, empathy, or alignment with one’s own community. In fact, it highlights that no group is a monolith, and people can be walking contradictions. Especially, it seems, on the Republican side.
Let’s start at the top of the ticket with Winsome Earle-Sears, a proud Trump loyalist and far-right MAGA conservative. Her politics put her squarely at odds with nine out of ten Black women voters—meaning, quite literally, she is “not like us.” Yet, what’s even more confounding is how often she seems out of step with her own self-interest.
For all her loyalty, Donald J. Trump has yet to return the favor with an endorsement, even as Election Day draws near. Still, she champions his agenda, calling inclusive policies meant to correct inequities “cancerous.” She once declared, “Slaves did not die in the fields so that we could call ourselves victims now.”
On one hand, Sears touts herself as someone who succeeded through “faith, education, and grit—not victimhood.” On the other, her own company’s LinkedIn description read: “As a female-, veteran-, and minority-owned business, we help federal contractors meet their diversity requirements.”
It’s a paradox that would be amusing if it weren’t so hypocritical. Sears celebrates meritocracy while benefitting from programs designed to open doors for women and minorities—doors that were closed not because of lack of merit, but because of bias.
Her rhetoric hits a nerve for those of us who’ve lived it. I remember being told early in my career that I wasn’t qualified to be a receptionist—by a woman with no college degree—despite my degree from William & Mary, a post graduate certificate in banking, and experience as an assistant branch manager. When she told me the phone was very complicated and would be difficult for me to grasp, she meant to demean me. I was 23. Years later, as an executive at the same company, I saw her name cross my desk for an entry-level opening as an administrative assistant. Ten years later, she had been in the same job. When Sears dismisses the need to address workplace discrimination, it’s not theoretical—it’s personal and it goes too far.
What I find most disturbing, though, is Sears’s stance toward the LGBTQ community. She has called homosexuality an “immoral lifestyle choice,” supports banning same-sex couples from adopting, and opposes workplace protections for gay Americans. She even endorses conversion therapy—a discredited, inhumane practice that has included chemical castration, hypnosis, electroshock, and even “corrective” r**e. It is condemned by every major medical association in the U.S. and only supported by about 8% of Americans.
So on this issue, Sears is not just a minority within a minority—she’s in a moral wilderness of her own making. Even more perplexing? Her running mate for lieutenant governor, John Reid, is openly gay.
Which takes me to John Reid, who opposes his own rights. Reid, who has an African American male partner, has vowed to block constitutional amendments that would protect voting rights, reproductive rights, and marriage equality. Let’s pause on that. Only two groups in American history—women and Black people—have needed constitutional guarantees to secure their voting rights. And Reid has pledged to oppose such protections.
Even more astonishing, he opposes efforts to safeguard gay marriage. A gay man calling the protection of his own right to marry “radical” would be ironic if it weren’t tragic. It’s self-denial dressed up as political courage.
Then there’s Jason Miyares, Virginia’s Hispanic attorney general candidate. Full disclosure: I once help write legislation and Miyares was the bill’s patron. It was a bipartisan legislation that was later adopted under Governor Ralph Northam. So yes, I have been on the same page with Jason on an issue.
But today, his silence is deafening. Miyares’ mother fled communist Cuba in 1965, seeking the freedoms America promised. Yet, under current policy, Cuban asylum seekers—once treated as refugees—are now being deported in shackles. Families are torn apart. Detainees describe dehumanizing treatment in ICE facilities. And what is Miyares saying about this? Nothing. Not a statement. Not a word. Just blind loyalty to the Trump agenda.
You’d think a man whose own mother fled tyranny would have something to say about freedom, compassion, or justice. Instead, silence.
So yes, this is the most diverse ticket Virginia has ever seen. But representation without empathy is hollow. Diversity without courage is meaningless.
Sears, Reid, and Miyares remind us that diversity isn’t just about who’s on the ballot—it’s about what they stand for when the stakes are highest…when you have everything to lose. And what’s clear this election season is that being part of a community doesn’t mean you speak for it—or even understand it.
Virginia deserves leaders who represent more than just their reflection in the mirror.
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