06/23/2023
GET OFF MY BACK!
I remember when I was a teenager my mother always asking me where I was going, who I was going with and how was I getting home? My response usually was: WHY? DON’T YOU TRUST ME? Truth is, she had reason to ask. Most of the times I was where I was supposed to be with people I was supposed to be with. But not always………. Like many teenagers, I broke the rules. When I did, it just made my mother more suspicious of my behavior. I remember thinking “if I’m going to be accused of something, I might as well do it.” In several incidences, my mother accused me of something I did not do. I would become indignant that she dare question my honesty!
Wanting someone off your back is not just frustrating for teenagers. Nobody wants to feel like another person is constantly monitoring your behavior. It can feel suffocating to live under such scrutiny. Sometimes in a relationship, one person is jealous for no reason. Perhaps their past relationships made them so. Sometimes, one transgression made in a relationship brings a veil of constant suspicion. An admission, an apology and a promise may not be enough to squelch distrust. Suspicion really is a tiny seed that can get planted in a single mistake and begin to grow like a choking vine.
At some point, GET OFF MY BACK is said. It took years after my adolescence for my mother to trust my word. Being “mostly truthful” as a teenager did not gain my mother’s trust in me during those tumultuous years. It took continued long-term honesty and her forgiveness to silence her suspicions.
If your behavior is being questioned by someone else, how does that feel? Is it a slow burn from a jealous partner that wrongly suspects you are flirting? Have you been accused of doing something you have not done? Are you trying to redeem your trustworthiness from a transgression? A polygraph exam is the shortest and quickest way to clear the air. It no longer takes years to prove your trustworthiness. Schedule a polygraph exam so you can get your partner OFF YOUR BACK. A polygraph exam will give you both clarity so you can look forward into your relationship without suspicion.
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