10/16/2024
Something you may not know about me - I'm a metal musician. That's something I normally keep totally separate from my professional life, but as I've gotten older, I've realized it's nothing to be ashamed of. It's not everyone's cup of tea, but I'm proud of the fact that I've expressed myself creatively and shared my output with the world.
Being a musician, and especially being part of a band, has strongly reinforced two important lessons that helped me in my career as a manager:
1. It's ALWAYS harder to put forth ideas for criticism than to criticize other's ideas.
2. Being truly, genuinely open to others' ideas and suggestions will almost always yield a better result.
A quick story re: # 2: About a year ago, my band Shards of Narsil grew from 2 to 5 members. The first song we wrote together as a group, "Dust to Dust," almost immediately got >10x the number of plays of all our other songs on Spotify.
For you managers out there, when one of your team members offers up an idea, remember: 1) They feel strongly enough about this idea that they're willing to expose themselves to criticism. 2) There is almost certainly some value in it, even if it isn't immediately obvious.