Mingle Mayhem - Boston

01/23/2026

Boston Dates, Planned for You: Union Square

As a matchmaker and singles event planner, I spend a lot of time thinking about what actually makes dates work.
This Union Square plan is especially good as a second + date. Variety is built in at every turn you’re walking, tasting, browsing, reacting which keeps things light, a little dopamine-filled, and easy to stay present. That's where the magic happens!

🛍 Bow Market (food + artsy & vintage shops)
🍦 ice cream Second (A must, even in January)
🎶 live music or open mic at The Jungle if you’re feeling it

Read the blog for why this date works and all the details.
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01/23/2026

Boston Dates, Planned for You: Union Square

I plan dating events and do matchmaking in Boston, so I spend a lot of time thinking about how to get the most out of your date. I want you to have a good time even if its a dud, explore local favorites, and do it all within walking distance!

This Union Square plan is especially good as a second date - easy, playful, and exploratory without being intense or romantic.

🍦 ice cream first
🛍 Bow Market (food + artsy & vintage shops)
🎶 live music or open mic at The Jungle if you’re feeling it

Read the blog for why this date works and all the details.
Comment UNION for the link.

We recommend this as a 2nd or 3rd date where you can deepen your connection and see what your date gravitates to. You can learn a lot about a person by poking around little shops. HOw they interact…

01/19/2026

💘 Big Singles Bash: Valentine’s Edition 💘
Bow Market • Feb 11 • 7–9 PM
Single? Perfect.

We’re turning Valentine’s week into a full-contact social experiment flirty games, low-pressure mingling, and just enough structure to make talking to strangers… actually fun. Come with friends or solo, leave with a crush, or at least a new story.

Confidence encouraged.
Tickets don’t last. 💌
📍 Bow Market
🕖 7–9 PM
📅 Feb 11

01/11/2026

Whether you consider yourself Jewish, Jew-ish, or haven’t decided yet, join us on Sunday, January 25, from 2–4 PM for a relaxed afternoon designed for Jewish singles 40+ who are ready to connect

All Jewish backgrounds and practices are welcome.
The event will be lightly structured to make conversation easy — small groups, gentle prompts, and plenty of time to connect naturally. No speed dating or forced icebreakers — just thoughtful conversation in one of the most welcoming spaces in the city.
📍 Lehrhaus, Somerville
Hosted by Mingle Mayhem — Boston’s best way to meet your person.
Space is limited. Link in Bio for tickets!

12/29/2025

One of my favorite things about Boston dating?
You can build a great date just by loving your neighborhood a little harder.

Davis Square date night:
🌯 quick bite
🍫 Wild Child Chocolate Game Night
🎤 comedy at The Rockwell

I’m starting a new blog series where I plan realistic first dates around local spots I love. Nothing forced. No overthinking. Just good flow and places that make it easier to connect.

Full plan is up on the blog
Link in bio

Davis Square: Make It Cozy Where: Davis Square, Somerville When: January 17th, 6:00 – 10:00 PM Total cost: ~$40–$50 per person Vibe: Cozy, playful, low-pressure togetherness The Date 6:00 PM …

11/27/2025

Boston, we’re so excited — next Wednesday’s Big Singles Bash (Dec 3) is almost at capacity. Women’s tickets have officially sold out, and we’ve got just a few spots left for men.

If you’ve been thinking about trying a Mingle Mayhem event, this is an easy win: cozy venue, great people, and a room full of folks actually looking to connect.

✨ Last men’s tickets are in our bio.
See you on Wednesday .at.bow

11/07/2025

Calling all Boston-area Jewish singles — we know you’re out there, because you’ve been begging for this event. And we heard you.

We’re teaming up with Lehrhaus, the incredible Jewish tavern and house of learning in Somerville, for an afternoon designed to spark real connection — not just awkward small talk. Think meaningful conversations, plenty of laughter, and maybe a few “bashert?” moments along the way.

Whether you’re looking to meet someone new, reconnect with your community, or just enjoy an excuse to spend your Sunday surrounded by great people (and great snacks), this one’s for you.

🗓 Saturday, November 9th | 2–4 PM
📍 Lehrhaus, Somerville
🎟 Tickets available through the link in our bio or directly at lehrhaus.com — space is limited, so grab yours early!