05/02/2024
Ok, but here's another thing about consistency: I think it's a damn dirty myth.
Let's talk about it.
The main storyline I've found out in the wide world is one of continuously grinding, always pushing, never stopping and, of course, working that social media hustle until your thumbs fall off.
Because if you don't have those likes and shares and followers, are you even *really* businessing?
So you've got to be on that screen, filming those reels, researching hash tags and trends and using all the most popular sounds before people get sick of them.
You've got to be offering new services or creating new products and keeping up with that business there, this one over here, that company all the way the hell over yonder.
You've got to update your blog, your website, your store, build your prospect list, send out at LEAST ten cold call emails a day - and don't forget all the follow-ups from the ones you sent out last week.
And you've got to do it every day.
Every
Damn
Day
But, like - until when?
Because we can't do anything forever. Not like forever, forever, you know? We burn out or do something else or at the very end of it die. Right?
So then THAT means there's no such thing as being consistent forever. Is there?
Maybe I'm just in a nihilistic era.
Maybe I'm more concerned with building the bones of my businesses, figuring out what I do and who I do it for, how I want to work and how I want to live my life.
Maybe I'm tired of screens and long to put marketing - something I love very much - in its place.
Maybe I want to live slow and soft and not be on the clock all day every day, forever.
Because forever ends, eventually. And that's okay.
If you're like me then you've found yourself sitting in this space where you want to do what you love to do, and you want to talk about it and share and expand your business - but honestly only a little bit, and only on your own terms.
And if you're like me, then maybe you've also begun to think of this as a total power position.
No more feeling goosed and harried into following some social media trend, or being tied to a wheel that never stops spinning. No more feeling like you *have* to want a six figure income, or to build your business into an empire.
Maybe your kitchen table operation is enough. Maybe your cottage industry business is enough. Maybe the customers you have, and the friends they'll bring your way are enough.
Maybe whatever pace and schedule and growth you find that works for you is just... enough.
How cool would that be?