01/09/2023
‘BUT IT WAS A GIFT!’
’Tis the season … the post-season, for that influx of Gifts.
Gifts are one of the trickiest stumbling blocks to the home editing process.
, author of (highly recommend!) says this about gifts:
‘The good news is you can receive the thoughtful and loving intention of the gift, and then opt to donate or pass on the gift itself. Say thank you, be gracious (and grateful), and then find that gift a new home. You get to decide if you’re more comfortable returning, exchanging, regifting, or donating the item in question. Just promise you won’t shove them in the back of your closet “in case the gift giver ever asks about them.” It’’s okay to let go of the gifts – and the side of guilt.’
As a gift giver, would you want someone to hold on to something out of guilt or obligation?
Relationships are so much more than things. You’re not ‘getting rid’ of the person if you don’t keep ‘the thing’.
Grant yourself permission to love the thought and the giver, but keep only the things that serve you best. 🕊️🎁🕊️