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With Understanding Comes Calm, LLC We guide parents of gifted & distractible children, mentor 2e adults and collaborate with clinicians

Your kid had a meltdown and you honestly have no idea what just happened. The teacher says one thing, you're seeing some...
10/20/2026

Your kid had a meltdown and you honestly have no idea what just happened. The teacher says one thing, you're seeing something completely different at home — and you're stuck between "what do I do right now?" and "am I missing something bigger?"

You don't have to sit with that alone. The Free Friday Consult is your direct line to real answers, every single week.

What's the question that's been weighing on you? Drop it below. 🔥

10/20/2026

Join Julie Skolnick, author of Gifted and Distractible and founder of With Understanding Comes Calm, LLC, to explore what may be happening beneath the behavior. Learn why gifted and twice-exceptional learners often struggle with executive functioning—and discover strength-based strategies that can help them feel understood, supported, and ready to learn.
📅 November 17
⏰ 4:30 PM MST
💻 Virtual
💙 FREE for all educators
Spend less time managing behaviors and more time doing what you love: teaching.
Register at idahogifted.org!

Ever said "wait, yours does that too?!" and felt your whole body relax? 💜That's the Gifted & Distractible Parent Communi...
10/18/2026

Ever said "wait, yours does that too?!" and felt your whole body relax? 💜

That's the Gifted & Distractible Parent Community. It's a year-round space for parents raising bright, intense, wonderfully complicated kids, where nobody needs the backstory and nobody's judging the 7 a.m. meltdown.

Bring the wins, the worries, and the stuff you can't say at school pickup. We get it, because we live it too.

What's one thing you wish other parents understood about raising your kid? 👇

🔗 Come join us: https://linktr.ee/LetsTalk2e

My kid is 10. Also 15. Also 6. And that's all before breakfast. 😅Gifted and distractible kids often grow unevenly: a bra...
10/17/2026

My kid is 10. Also 15. Also 6. And that's all before breakfast. 😅

Gifted and distractible kids often grow unevenly: a brain racing years ahead, and feelings that need a little more time to catch up. That's asynchronous development. It's not a parenting fail, and it's not your kid being "difficult."

When the 15-year-old brain argues like a lawyer and the 6-year-old heart melts down over the wrong cup, try meeting the age that's showing up in that moment.

Which "ages" visit your house in a single day? 👇

🔗 More for parents of 2e kids: https://linktr.ee/LetsTalk2e

Easy things are hard and hard things are easy. If that sounds like your bright kid, you're not imagining it. 💡So many gi...
10/16/2026

Easy things are hard and hard things are easy. If that sounds like your bright kid, you're not imagining it. 💡

So many gifted and twice-exceptional kids can explain black holes but can't find their shoes, get started on homework, or remember the permission slip. That's executive functioning, and it's not a character flaw.

I'm joining my friends at Illuminos Academic Coaching & Tutoring and the wonderful Wendy Weinberger for their Less Stress Parenting series. We'll talk about why executive functioning skills can be so tricky for 2e kids and how a strength-based approach builds skills AND confidence. Bonus: we'll put the FUN back in executive FUNctioning.

Thursday, Nov 19 · 12–1 PM ET · Online · FREE

What's the "easy" thing that's weirdly hard at your house? 👇

🔗 Register free: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/2003082578915

ADHD Awareness Month got me thinking: what does "awareness" actually mean? 🧠Most people know the word ADHD. Far fewer kn...
10/15/2026

ADHD Awareness Month got me thinking: what does "awareness" actually mean? 🧠

Most people know the word ADHD. Far fewer know it isn't a lack of attention. It's attention going a LOT of places at once (I call it hyper-attention), along with creativity, big-picture thinking, and a body that often needs to move in order to focus.

In this month's vlog, I unpack what the DSM actually says about ADHD, and the awesome parts it leaves out.

Your turn: what's one wonderful trait that comes with ADHD for you, your kid, or your student? 👇

▶️ Watch on YouTube and subscribe: https://youtube.com/shorts/CiLDsHcSqdQ

Your brightest students can also be your most misunderstood. When giftedness and learning differences collide (2e), the ...
10/14/2026

Your brightest students can also be your most misunderstood. When giftedness and learning differences collide (2e), the result often looks like “inconsistent,” “unmotivated,” or “behavioral” when it’s really unmet needs and masking.

I deliver strength-based training that helps educators identify 2e learners earlier, reduce power struggles, and implement practical supports that work in real classrooms.

If you’d like to bring this training to your school or district, schedule a quick chat with me here: https://calendly.com/julieskolnick/speaking-event-inquiry

Same argument. Different day. Sound familiar? 😮‍💨When ADHD is part of a relationship, the same fight can loop on repeat....
10/14/2026

Same argument. Different day. Sound familiar? 😮‍💨

When ADHD is part of a relationship, the same fight can loop on repeat. Someone forgets, someone snaps, someone apologizes, and nothing actually changes.

My friend Linda Roggli is hosting the 2026 ADHD Couples' Palooza, October 23–25. Nineteen ADHD experts are sharing practical tools to help couples communicate, repair, and reconnect. It's one weekend, online, and FREE.

Go solo (one person really can shift a relationship) or bring your partner (even better).

Which argument is on repeat at your house? No judgment, we all have one 👇

👉 Register free: https://fn101.isrefer.com/go/couplespalooza2026/skolnick/

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