20/05/2024
ND prevarication, procrastination and indecision can be a real challenge. Sometimes it is because I don't know which tools to use to make a good decision. Or all the options are too similar. Or I'm too scared to make a costly mistake.
One of the most useful pieces of theory I learned at the Graduate School of Business was 'locus of control' (thanks Kurt April). This theory helps you understand to what extent you make decisons because you believe you are in charge of your own life (internal locus of control) or to what extent you feel external factors or forces control your life (external locus of control). External factors may be luck, your horoscope, some kind of superstition or higher power. For a long time in my 20s, my locus of control was too externally facing.
Now, I finally see how to take better and healthier control of my life - asking for help being a key step. It doesn't always work. Earlier this year when faced with multiple car options, all the same price, all very similar - I must confess I went with a Honda (familiar, drove one for 12 years) and the fact the number plate started with ND. But fortunately this time, I got my father to do the sums!
Do you think that neurodivergent people, possibly undiagnosed, rely more on external factors to mitigate stress? Let me know!
- Kate