10/06/2025
I've been reading Dale Carnegie's "How to stop worrying and start living" this week.
And one simple idea has stuck with me.
Focus on the now.
It sounds so obvious but I started noticing something while working with clients and even more so when on calls with my mentors.
There is a clear difference between the types of questions being asked.
The successful ones, the high achievers, they are asking about the now...
What can they fix, now.
What can they do, now.
They ask for answers that's immediately implementable (if there is a word like that)
But interestingly, the ones behind, they ask "What if..." questions
What if this doesn't work?
What if no one buys?
What if I run out of content?
And it's the kind of thinking that I'm noticing.
One enforces action and drives results, the other not helping you move forward , just kept stuck in theory.
But we all know the truth about the "What ifs...?"
They hardly ever happen because we make these scenarios up in our minds.
It's as if fear is disguised as "planning" by asking those questions.
It's the same pattern I'm seeing with Install Clients
The ones moving fastest ask immediate questions like:
- My current conversion on my offer is 7%, how do I structure my offer better to increase the conversion
- How do I introduce a group structured offer that requires less 1:1, my 1:1 spots are full
- How do I turn my workshop into an evergreen product
They move quickly, they keep testing and they learn and adapt with each thing they try
Because the only thing we actually control is what we do right now.
We can't change yesterday, we can't change the next 6 months, just the action we take today.
And that action will ensure a better tomorrow.