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30/07/2025

10 ESSENTIALS FOR A HEALTHY MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP

1. _Communication_: Open, honest, and respectful communication is essential for building trust and understanding.

2. _Trust_: Trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship, allowing partners to feel secure and supported.

3. _Respect_: Mutual respect is vital, recognizing the value and worth of each other's thoughts, feelings, and boundaries.

4. _Compromise_: Finding common ground and compromising on differences helps maintain harmony and understanding.

5. _Support_: Offering emotional, physical, and spiritual support fosters a sense of unity and strength.

6. _Intimacy_: Physical and emotional intimacy are crucial for building a deep and fulfilling connection.

7. _Forgiveness_: Practicing forgiveness and understanding helps to resolve conflicts and move forward.

8. _Teamwork_: Working together as a team, sharing responsibilities and goals, strengthens the bond and commitment.

9. _Gratitude_: Expressing appreciation and gratitude for each other and the relationship nurtures a positive and loving atmosphere.

10. _Love_: Unconditional love, patience, and kindness are the foundation of a strong and enduring relationship.

Bible texts:

- "Love each other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins." - 1 Peter 4:8
- "And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love." - 1 Corinthians 13:13
- "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." - Ephesians 4:2
- "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud." - 1 Corinthians 13:4
- "Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience." - Colossians 3:12

★ STAY BLESSED

26/07/2025

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR SE*X DRIVES DON’T MATCH?

Mismatch in s*xual desire affects more marriages than people admit

One of you wants it often.
The other… not so much.
And suddenly, something that’s meant to bring you closer becomes a point of frustration, rejection, and misunderstanding.

You start asking questions like:
“Am I not enough?”
“Is something wrong with me?”
And before you know it, bitterness replaces desire.

Here’s the truth:
You’re not broken. Your marriage isn’t doomed. And mismatched s*x drives are more common than you think.

Here's How Couples Can Navigate Mismatched S*x Drives Without Constant Conflict?

✅ Stop Taking It Personally: Desire fluctuates for many reasons—stress, hormones, body image, or emotional disconnection.

It’s not always about you. Start with compassion towards your spouse, not assumptions.

✅ Talk About It (Without Pressure or Shame): Many couples don’t talk about se*x until it becomes a fight.

Create a safe space to say:
"I want to understand what intimacy means to you."

Not everything is solved in the bedroom—some things begin with honest, shame-free conversations.

✅ Understand Each Other’s “Why”: For one partner, se*x might be how they feel loved.
For the other, they might need to feel loved first before being open to intimacy.
Different approaches—same need for connection.

✅ Find Middle Ground: Intimacy isn’t just in*******se.
Touch, quality time, emotional bonding—these all feed desire.
When both partners feel emotionally close, physical closeness often follows.

✅ Consider Counseling: If this keeps creating emotional walls, don’t suffer in silence. Professional guidance can help both of you understand yourselves and each other better.

The truth is, your s*x life doesn’t have to be perfect to be healthy.
It just needs mutual respect, open communication, and patience.

Desire may not always match—but your willingness to work through it together is what builds real intimacy.

26/07/2025

𝐆𝐎𝐃'𝐒 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 𝐈𝐒 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐁𝐄𝐒𝐓 𝐓𝐄𝐀𝐂𝐇𝐄𝐑; 𝐄𝐗𝐏𝐄𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄 𝐈𝐒 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐁𝐄𝐒𝐓 𝐓𝐄𝐀𝐂𝐇𝐄𝐑

🔴Some people say “experience is the best teacher,” while some others say that “life itself is the best teacher”; these are not true.

✅It may be possible for you to learn a few things from your experiences in life, but the best teacher in life is God’s Word; the instruction manual for living.

✅The Bible says “Every Scripture is inspired by God and is useful for teaching…” (2 Timothy 3:16 WNT).

✅There’s no better way to be a success in life than to follow the Word of God and do what it says.

✅There are folks who only learn through terrible experiences the things they could have learnt if they had only followed the Word of God. Such people experience crisis in their businesses, marriages and other areas of life.

✅But you don’t need to learn that way.

🔴You don’t have to lose all your investments to learn how to handle your finances properly.

🔴Neither do you need to have experienced a rocky marriage before you learn how to love your spouse.

🔴Learning God’s Word and putting it to work will save you from regrettable experiences.

🔴David said, “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path” (Psalm 119:105).

🔴The Message Translation puts it this way: “By your words I can see where I’m going; they throw a beam of light on my dark path.”

🔴That means the Word of God illuminates the paths of your life; it gives you direction and the ‘know-how’ to succeed in life.

🔴You don’t have to live by “trial and error”; stick with the Word, and everything about your life will work out beautifully well.

🔴Yielding to the Word of God and living by it will make you a wonder to others. They’d begin to ask how come life is so easy for you! The answer is simple: The Word of God has become the pilot of your life.

📖Psalm 119:9 Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.

📖Psalm 19

26/07/2025

A person who causes you to react controls you. A person who compels you to think and consider doing differently influences you.Irrespective of the challenges or circumstances, you can choose your response. How you live your life is totally up to you. It's not dependent on your circumstances. It's dependent on your choices.

26/07/2025

Don’t confuse being wanted with being valued. Some people want you for what you give, not for who you are. That’s using you & Don’t keep rebuking what you won’t stop entertaining that’s your spirit leaking , Focus on the mission God has Called you to fulfill .

26/07/2025

Don't forget to throw trash, not only out of the bin but also out of your mind and life. The secret to a transformed life is in what goes on in your mind!

Depression doesn't come from what's going on in your life. It comes from your thoughts about what's going on in your life. People get depressed and discouraged because they are caught up in the world. They dwell on things they should not be thinking about or they do not recognize the priority that God should have in their life.

26/07/2025

*🔴 Never call yourself unfortunate. Never say you're frustrated.*

🔴 Words like “I feel unfortunate,” “I’m frustrated,” “The world is against me” — are not just expressions, they are spells. You’re casting a future.

🔴 Replace them with faith-filled phrases:
“I’m in charge.”
“I’m winning.”
“I’m stronger than before.”

🔴 Don’t misuse words. It’s not harmless. Words are containers — they carry power.

🧠 Become a master of language. Your life will follow your vocabulary.

26/07/2025

Dear Young Man,

The Worst Thing That Can Happen to a Woman… Is Her Circle of Female Friends.

You must understand that her circle matters a lot before you commit. She is the product of the company she keeps.
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Listen up; ‎Nobody misleads a woman faster than another woman.

‎Nobody pushes her to sabotage her home, her man, or her future more than her girlfriends.
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‎You see a married woman complaining about her man, and before you know it—her friends start chanting:
‎“You deserve better sis!”
‎“Leave him!”
‎“Normalize walking away!”
‎“You’re too beautiful to be treated like that.”
‎
‎Meanwhile… none of them have peace.
‎None of them have stable homes.
‎But they’re quick to validate each other’s foolishness like it’s some sisterhood badge of honour.
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‎Young women listen to bad advice from bitter women.
‎Single women tell married women how to run their homes.
‎Bitter women tell happy women that submission is slavery.
‎And useless women laugh when a woman says she wants to cook and serve her husband.
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‎This is the cancer that is destroying modern womanhood.
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‎Back in the day, our mothers had women who rebuked them when they misbehaved.
‎Today, women encourage each other to be wild, rude, rebellious, and disloyal—then turn around and scream:
‎“Where are the good men?”
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‎The answer is simple: good men avoid badly advised women.
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‎A woman who listens to foolish friends is a bomb waiting to explode in a man’s life.
‎You want a peaceful woman?
‎Check her circle.
‎If she’s surrounded by loud-mouthed, Jezebel-minded, man-hating feminists… run.
‎Because when the time comes to destroy your peace, her cheerleaders will show up with placards and nonsense hashtags.
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‎A wise woman needs correction, not validation.
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‎And the best woman for a man is the one who listens to wisdom, not the noise from broken women around her.

Stay wise..

Aklahyel Goni
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20/07/2025

A WOMAN WHO CAN APOLOGIZE WILL HELP YOUR MARRIAGE THRIVE...✍🏽

Pride destroys homes, but humility builds them.
A woman who cannot admit wrong or say “I’m sorry” is a ticking time bomb in marriage. Look for a lady who takes responsibility for her actions, listens to feedback, and makes effort to change.
She won’t see your correction as an attack but as a tool for growth. Marry someone who values peace over ego, who knows reconciliation is more important than always being right.
Her heart will become a healing ground, not a battlefield. Humility isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom.

★ TAKE NOTE

19/07/2025

𝐘𝐎𝐔'𝐑𝐄 𝐃𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐄𝐃 𝐓𝐎 𝐏𝐑𝐄𝐕𝐀𝐈𝐋

🔴The challenges you face in life aren’t planned for anybody else, but you.

🔴So, make up your mind to be excited for the peculiar challenges that come your way, for they’re yours to overcome.

🔴It’s the reason the Word says, “My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations” (James 1:2).

🔴You’re destined to prevail.

🔴Problems gravitate only towards their solution. So, welcome trouble.

🔴Your attitude towards life’s challenges should be that of absolute success and total victory, irrespective of the situation.

🔴The problem you have in your life isn’t the issue, and it’s not how you feel about it that gets God’s attention. What gets His attention is what you do about it.

🔴God is not “troubled” by the severity of the problems you face, because He knows you’re born of Him; you’re more than a conqueror. All He wants you to do is to learn His Word, and get the wisdom of the Kingdom working in your spirit, so that you’ll always respond the right way.

🔴When you face every challenge with Kingdom-response, you’ll never lose.

🔴2 Corinthians 4:17 says, “For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory.”

🔴The quality and potential of the troubles that come your way determine the quality of your personality, your promotion, and the place that God has set for you.

🔴The smaller your troubles, the smaller your rank will be.

🔴Be inspired by people who have faced tough times and prevailed; not by lily-livered individuals who chickened out in the day of adversity.

🔴The Bible says if you give up in the day of adversity, you’re of a poor specimen (Proverbs 24:10 TLB).

🔴Confront challenges and win.

🔴If you think your challenges are great, happy are you, for that means you’re great; it’s your opportunity to prove the Word.

🔴Face that problem head on!

🔴Your faith is all that you need.

📖1 Corinthians 10:13 AMP

16/07/2025

🔴 𝐂𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐝𝐨 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮; 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐨 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐂𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲.

🔴 You’re the one to work the Word and make it produce results in your life. In Christianity, we practise the Word:

> 📖 “But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass…”
— James 1:22–23

🔴 First is that you search and study the Word, and then you believe, and act accordingly.

🔴 For example, if you feel the symptom of sickness, declare that you’re in health and no sickness can thrive in your body.

🔴 Refuse to let the pain or discomfort dominate your mind; instead, set your gaze on the Lord and His infallible Word, rejoicing in His truth.

🔴 The Word will prevail — always.

16/07/2025

𝐃𝐎𝐍'𝐓 𝐂𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐓 𝐏𝐄𝐎𝐏𝐋𝐄

🔴Don't cheat people. Nobody steals and begins to prosper. You will never get there. Cause when you steal and put it in your pocket, it will tear your pocket. You will always be poor and remain at that level.

🔴Don't use bad language.

🔴In Christianity, we say what is good and helpful to others and it must give a blessing. We must always practice speaking right.

🔴Stop being mean, bad-tempered and angry.

🔴Use words that heal people, cure and make demons tremble.

🔴Be a master of words like Jesus. In Christ Jesus we build others. We make them feel like they are special and they are somebody. This is what Jesus thinks of them.

🔴Don't steal. Christians don't steal.

🔴Christianity must be practised.

🔴Excel in your Christianity. Do your Christianity.

🔴Be an example.

🔴Godliness is about your demeanour.

🔴Your dressing matters; some piety is necessary in your dressing.

🔴There’s a decency that goes with the Spirit of God, and that decency must be in your life.

🔴There’re outward things that people should see in you, and say, “Yes, this is a Christian.”

🔴They can’t see it in your heart, but can see it in your character. That’s what godliness is about.

🔴There’re movies you shouldn’t watch.

🔴There’re books or magazines you shouldn’t read.

🔴There’re places you just shouldn’t be found in, because you’re different.

🔴And if for any reason you find yourself in such places, you ought to go in there with godly piety. Yes, that’s the life you’ve been called to live.

🔴How about your Church attendance, take church seriously. Go to church; make it a habit.

🔴It’s a Christian habit to go to church, so cultivate it. It’s important.

🔴Coming together to pray is also a Christian habit. The word of God expects us to do so.

🔴There’s a way you ought to behave when you come into the house of God, because church isn’t like everywhere else. It’s a place of worship. There’s an attitude of reverence you ought t

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