07/09/2026
Hey FM, kindly post this for me. 🙏🏽
Okay guys, I have a story to tell. This is one of the reasons why we should be careful about who we trust and how much we sacrifice for someone. 😭
Fast forward, I was dating this girl. We started dating when we were working together. Eventually, she decided to resign because she wanted to go to university.
The funny thing is, this girl didn’t come from a well-off family, so I was always there helping her out. I genuinely cared about her and wanted to see her do well. I remember that just two days before she started university, I even spent K4,000 on her. I bought her clothes and other things she needed for school.
I would genuinely pay this girl’s bills, give her transport money every week, pay for her hair, and help her with whatever I could. Since she knew I came from a well-off family and that I earned over K10,000, she eventually became entitled to my money. She started acting as though it was my responsibility to provide for everything she needed.
But honestly, love made me do all these things. I wasn’t doing it because I wanted praise or anything in return. I genuinely loved her and wanted to support her. Looking back now, I honestly regret how much I sacrificed.
Well, guess what? Two weeks after she started university, she started telling me that she wanted to have male friends. Imagine! 🤦🏽♂️
Recently, she told me she wanted to start sleeping at school. Even after I told her I wasn’t comfortable with it, she still decided to sleep there.
Only for me to find out that she was sleeping with another guy. 😭
When I confronted her about it, she looked me in the face and admitted that she had s*x with him.
The guy even called me and told me, “If a girl cheats on you, it means she doesn’t want you.”
Honestly, guys, I genuinely supported this girl and tried my best to make life easier for her, but she still decided to cheat. 🤦🏽♂️
So my advice to the bros out there is: don’t lose yourself trying to save someone else. Support someone because you genuinely want to, but don’t empty your pockets, sacrifice your peace, and assume that your sacrifices will guarantee loyalty.
Love can make you do things you never thought you would do. And sometimes, the biggest lesson comes from the person you sacrificed the most for. 😭🤦🏽♂️
