21/10/2024
It’s okay to desire greatness, significance and legacy. However it’s also okay to want simple, grounded and quiet.
For me - I want my version of freedom. I want to grow up as a human around great humans. And I want to leave the world a better place because of whatever it is I do and create.
For me as a coach - I strongly believe in designing your life for you. For what you truly desire - not for validation from people you know or even the ones you don’t.
For me as a friend - I want you to feel like I’m there when you need and that over time I have learnt how to listen better, be more present and that we are better people for being in each others lives.
For me as a mum - I want my kids to become whoever they choose to be and to have as many random experiences as possible and to ask a million questions about anything and everything. I want them to be all of who they are and at the same time learn to accept everyone for who they are also. I walk beside not in front or behind. Their journey was never mine - it was always theirs… I want them to want to hang out with me when they are adults. Not feel like they have to.
For me as a wife - I want to be pushed and I want to push - towards growth, towards understanding and towards each other - not away from each other. I want to grow on our own journey and on the one we are building together. I want to support each other to be each other and enjoy having tea with each other for as long as we possibly can.
For me as a daughter - I want to answer the call and talk and listen and share for as long as I possibly can. For as often as I can because I know every phone call, every hug, every day is precious as we get older.
For me as a sister - I want to laugh soo hard I fall to the ground, I want to be each others person when life hits one of us hard. I want to see our kids grow up as cousins and to remember who we once were and love who we have become.
For me as a boss - I want each of my team to show up as they are. And feel valued for what they bring to the table and the world. I want to create spaces and places and opportunities for them to dream, experiment and achieve great things… and fail! Fail often and hard and quickly. To love learning and improving and adjusting.
For me as a human - I want every person to remember they are worthy. And that they matter. And I want to walk and smile and remember that every one of us has something to teach each other. That we are all connected.
I desire freedom. To create. To curate. To connect and to coach. I desire to show the perspectives of others that you may not be able to see. I desire to travel the world and to build businesses that transform the human experience. Through education, through personal development, through experiences and stories.
It’s not about the big houses, or the numbers in an account… it’s not about the raving fans or the sponsorship deals.
It’s about whether I made more lives better because of the person I am. Or worse. Whether I gave more than I took. Whether I loved more than I feared.
We never know when our last day is. And there gets to be beauty in that.
I designed my life this way. And I help others design theirs too. Because you get to have it all - whatever that version of ALL is for you.