13/06/2026
In the largest study of child s*xual abuse (CSA) perpetrators’ accounts ever conducted, a disturbing collection of common themes emerged: men feel entitled to s*x and submission from women and girls and if they don’t get it, they lash out. Many of these men perpetrate CSA as a form of revenge against their adult woman partner (the parent of their victim), with one man admitting, “there was a few times that I molested [my stepdaughter] out of being mad […] at [my wife for] […] not cleaning the house. Letting the dog s**t on the floor and nobody cleaning it
up”. Others blamed their anger towards the child as the reason: “she wasn’t being a nice little girl”.
Some men feel driven to perpetrate CSA because their adult partners aren’t doing what they want or expect s*xually (not “enough” s*x; won’t engage in specific s*xual acts), but also more broadly (not adhering to traditional femininity; not fulfilling the housewife/mother/s*xual partner fantasy). They see children as an opportunity to get what they want and feel entitled to take it from them without consideration for how this impacts the victim.
Some men perpetrate CSA because they say they are “in love with” the child, were “comforting” them, or wanted to “educate” them. More disturbingly, some believe that the child not only consented to the abuse (an impossibility for a child to consent) but ‘seduced’ and ‘manipulated’ them: “she was a little vixen”. A few even interpreted non-s*xual actions or trauma responses as signs that the victim was consenting/enthusiastic.
This research highlights the urgent need for policymakers and practitioners to strengthen efforts to combat misogyny, male s*xual entitlement, and patriarchal privilege and specifically tailor these efforts towards preventing CSA.
Sources: https://theconversation.com/worlds-largest-study-of-child-s*xual-abuse-perpetrators-reveals-why-they-abuse-275930?utm_medium=article_
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