Sacred Whispers

22/09/2026

Number One Fear in Horse Riders....

In my experience over the past 30 years of working with horse women and horses, being a body worker, working with trauma and psychosomatic medicine as well as a Results Coach, I have worked with the variation of fears that have arisen.

There are seven core fears that present but one stands out more than any other, and is the biggest restricting factor in horse riders playing small and not living life by their desire.

Do you know what the number one fear is?

🐎Afraid of falling off?
🐎Afraid of the horse being hurt?

All though they rank highly on the fear scale, they are not the number one fear.

🥇What is your number one fear that holds you back from totally engaging in your true vision with your horse?

The number one fear is the "Fear of Abandonment"

Not what you were expecting.

The Fear of Abandonment is very real.

It is the fear of you being abandoned by your peers.

It is the fear of if you excelled in what you did, and you achieved a higher result over your friends,

Would they still like you?
Would they judge you?
Would the tall poppy syndrome come into play?
What will they think?
Are they judging me from the sidelines?
If you excelled, would they still be your friend, your riding companion.

The Fear of Abandonment comes into play when you don't compete against yourself and your whole focus is competing against others and beating their score, beating their clear round or not beating their score or not getting a clear round, so they win.

And fear of abandonment sets in that if you do better, they won't be your friend and you make yourself small and unconsciously self sabotage.

Chose your tribe, the ones that want to see you succeed, the ones that cheer you on from the sidelines, the ones that share your wins and when you don’t, encourage never to give up on your dreams.

✅When we compete against ourself,
✅Ride a better round than the round previously,
✅When we only knock down one rail instead of 10,
✅When we have a higher score in our dressage test than the score before

🏆and we learn to celebrate ourself in all of those wins, is when we lose our biggest fear, the Fear of Abandonment.

What are your Goals?
Why is it important to you?
and most importantly who are you riding for?

If you are interested in booking a free strategy call in regards to your goals and Mindset Coaching, please reach out to me for the link.

21/08/2026

13/08/2026

YOUR HORSE IS STILL A HORSE 🐎🐴

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and allowing my mind to do a deep pondering.

How easily do we fall into the trap of thinking our horses need to become more?

The young horse needs more educating.
The nervous horse needs confidence.
The green horse needs more work.
The dressage horse needs more collection.
The competition horse needs better scores.

And somehow, we start believing that the horse who can do more is a better horse and worth more.

But are they?

Just bear with me in this, they are still the same horse.

The same horse who has learnt the skill of jumping
The same horse who has learnt the skill of dressage
The same horse who has the skill of doing endurance.

He hasn’t become a better horse.

He is still the “same horse” who has simply learned a skill.

He has learnt skills.
His body has become stronger
He has more capacity
He has learned technique

But underneath all of that…

HE is still the SAME horse.

And I think we could learn something from that. Because we do this to ourselves too.

We think we need to become more successful.
More confident.
More healed.
More spiritual.
More productive.
More accomplished.

More…

More…

More…

As though one day, if we just improve ourselves enough, we’ll finally become worthy.

But what if we already are?

What if learning something new doesn’t make you more worthy?

What if becoming successful doesn’t make you more valuable?more worthy?

What if healing doesn’t turn you into a better human being… but simply allows you to live more freely as the human you already are?

You are still the most amazing human you always were, just with a skill

Whether it be playing a violin
Whether it be writing poetry
Whether it be learning dressage

Your horse doesn’t become more valuable because he wins a ribbon.

He doesn’t become more lovable because he gets a flying change right.

He doesn’t become more worthy because he stops spooking.

He’s worthy before he ever does a thing. And I will say it again, he is still the same horse of worth, just with a skill set.

And so are you (- not a horse but a person 🥴)

Grow
Learn
Stretch yourself.

Become deliciously brilliant at something that lights you up.

But don’t do it because you think you need to become someone worthy of loving.

Do it because
you’re curious.
It feels good.
it makes you come wonderfully Alive on the inside .

Do it because there is still so much of life existing waiting to be explored.

Your horse is valuable because he simply exists and so are you.

22/06/2026

Sing a long with Daisy

09/06/2026

The Kimberley Region is like nowhere else. The big conglomerates are wanting to not only frack but also redirect the waters out of the vast river's to their cattle stations and beyond.

The Fitzroy River and the Ord River are under threat.

Please if you can, sign the petition to keep the Kimberley as a Natural Wonder for all to enjoy.

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/18cYZMiHjs/

02/06/2026

You know what’s fascinating about riding?

Your horse usually knows the truth before you do.
They feel the hesitation.�
They feel the second-guessing.�
The “I want it… but do I really believe I can have it?” energy.

So many riders think they need more skill, when really all as they need is permission to stop shrinking their ride and ‘Ride from the End Result’.

On June 17th, 7.00pm AEST I’m running a Rider’s Edge Masterclass "Ride From The End Result"

We’re diving into:�
• sneaky self-sabotaging patterns�
• riding from the space of where you actually want to go�
• getting clear on your true end result�
• giving yourself permission to ride bigger, bolder, freer

Because sometimes the biggest thing standing between you and the ride you want…. is the story you keep sitting in.

Your horse is waiting for you to decide.

Registration is required via the link.

https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/b0_jaOdDQL63n5gbfCZ5WQ

29/04/2026

Thank you to the person who did this original post. It is not mine but sent to me

11/04/2026

Today is a day of falling in love all over again.

Dingo…. Definitely steal my heart on so many levels.

So appreciative of spending the day with this gorgeous girl 💗💗

Dingo loving