02/06/2026
I had a deal collapse last year that should never have fallen over.
The business was solid. The offer was strong — validated by people and mentors I trust. We built in deferred elements to manage risk, a short timeframe, and collaborative incentives for both sides.
First call during the pitch — the seller was calm. No objections. Said he'd think about it.
Three days later he came back furious. Someone had got in his ear and turned a deal structure into a personal attack.
He couldn't separate structure from sentiment. The deferred component — a risk mitigation tool — felt like an insult.
Here's the reality of deal-making. Two people with different positions trying to find middle ground. That's it. There's no perfect offer. There's no structure that feels entirely comfortable for both sides on day one.
If an offer lands in a way that stings, give it time. 24 to 48 hours. Let the emotion settle. Then come back to the table with a question, not a verdict.
The buyer moved on and closed a strong deal not long after.
The seller is still holding.
If you're looking at a deal right now and want a second opinion on the structure — Comment DEAL and we'll take a look.