03/08/2026
The employee nobody wants to fire is rarely the difficult one. They're the one everyone likes. Friendly, easy to be around, always has a reasonable explanation when something slips.
They ask the same question for the fiftieth time. Priorities get misread or ignored. Simple tasks turn into escalations instead of solutions. They're busy all day, but rarely get to the work that actually matters, and to them, busy looks a lot like good performance. None of it looks like a crisis.... That's exactly the problem.
If this same person was difficult to work with or not a ‘nice person’, these issues would've been called out months ago. It's not the behaviour that's buying them time. It's their personality.
Most leaders know the person isn't the right fit much earlier than they want to admit. And most wait anyway, because raising it with someone this likeable feels disproportionate, unfair or they're hoping they'll get better.
Meanwhile the team is quietly covering. Fixing the mistakes. Filling the gaps. Eventually the team will go from liking someone to resenting them. Eventually that resentment stops being about the employee and starts being about leadership, for not doing anything about it.
None of this makes anyone a bad person. It usually just means the role, the person, and the business were never quite aligned, and nobody said so.
In this article I've shared why this happens, what it actually costs a team and a business, and why avoiding the conversation isn't the kind thing to do.
Read it here: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/employee-nobody-wants-fire-sally-dillon-ahhzc
Where do you draw the line between giving someone more time and knowing it's not the right
Not the difficult one. Not the person who creates conflict or makes the office tense the moment they walk in.