10/10/2022
Mental Health is not a destination. It is not even a state of being…..It is an activity.
If our minds are gardens - organic plots that sprout thoughts like plants and attitudes or beliefs like ecosystems, then : mental health would be the activity of gardening
If we are dedicated to learning about what species of thoughts grow in our minds, what takes naturally to our soil, and to curating what perspectives we want to take root, we will feel much more comfortable and at home in our gardens. We will enjoy spending more time in this garden and invest more of our attention to it.
Gardening is an age old activity where you learn from others – you read, you watch, you ask, you talk, you share. “Good” gardeners are people who have practiced for many years and seen their share of failures, understand that they cannot control everything – the weather will not listen to their landscaping plans. They accept and adjust how they react to it and cultivate the tools that can help.
Even “good” gardeners can still experience poor seasons where for mysterious reasons roots wouldn’t take so they will investigate, always ready to learn from mistakes and try again.
This Gardening analogy implies that mental health is not the “normal” or “natural” state of being, or that we are polluted or poisoned by mental illness.
Instead, it implies that when we let our minds grow thick and overgrown by not tending to it, we will simply have a harder time navigating the unfamiliar tangle of vines and feel more anxious about what mysterious creepy-crawlies are living in the underbrush.
Tend to your garden daily
1) Beware of “weeds” such as mindless internet surfing and other forms of procrastination; self-doubt; perfectionism; and so on.
2) “Prune” away tasks and projects that are not as important to you.
3) Check your “soil” nourishment, rest and play to balance your energy and emotional
What is your prized gardening hack for maintaining your mental health?
Share in the comments below 👇