02/05/2026
This weekends helpful therapy tip for you all is the 4D method to reduce distress and prevent cortisol (our favourite stress/uncertainty hormone) elevation.
1. DISTRACT. Shift the focus away from the thing causing stress. For example, physically move spaces from one room to another in the immediate moment. Changing spaces can reset your thought processes.
2. DILUTE. Reduce the feeling of stress or distress, by breaking the thing down into smaller tasks, or, alternate to a different task until your levels return to normal
3. DEVELOP. Create new strategies through reflection about what is working when trying to lower the stressor. For example, talking the stress through with a therapist or trusted friend to analyse what works and what doesn't. A neutral and objective perspective can assist in helping you remove yourself from the moment
4. DISCOVER. Use the first three suggestions here to discover your toolbox to take into the next moments that might cause you stress. This step helps foster long term resilience so that the next moment doesn't hit as hard.
This is only a snapshot of the method we use. In our sessions we unpack these and plan practically how they can work for you in your circumstance. I have appointments available should you need them.
As always, if you have questions, or things you would like more information on, please DM us. I have always viewed psychoeducation as an important part of what I do and am more than happy to post about topics that are closer to your needs