Amber Field Support Strategist and Connection Facilitator

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👉 Business Support Strategist 👈
You know when you're running a business and you know you need help but you have no idea what kind - or you've hired someone and it made things worse?

Your VA isn’t a mind reader.. Neither am I.. (Devastating, I know 😂)But one of the strangest things about running a busi...
07/09/2026

Your VA isn’t a mind reader.. Neither am I.. (Devastating, I know 😂)

But one of the strangest things about running a business for a long time is that you forget just how much information you’re carrying around in your head.

You know that when you say “just send the regular email we send”
 you mean *that* template, with *that* attachment, sent three days beforehand, except for this particular client because they prefer something slightly different.

You know that “check with Sarah” means Sarah the bookkeeper, not Sarah the social media manager.

You know which customers prefer a phone call, which supplier needs chasing twice, why you never book meetings on Tuesday mornings and what “the same as last time” actually looked like.

You’ve accumulated years of tiny decisions, exceptions, relationships and context.

Then someone new joins the business and we accidentally give them six words of instruction for something that requires six years of backstory.... and wonder why they didn’t quite nail it đŸ€Ż

Sometimes a capable person can look incapable simply because they’re working inside a role filled with assumptions they don’t know exist.

That doesn’t mean documenting every conceivable scenario or writing an SOP for replying to an email.

It does mean recognising the difference between “they should know this” and “I know this because I’ve been inside my business for years". 🙃

Those are very different things.

So, business owners: what’s something in your business that makes PERFECT sense to you
 but would make absolutely no sense to someone walking in tomorrow? đŸ€”

I talk about boundaries a *lot*. Like, a whole lot.It's not because I think we all need to become brilliant at saying NO...
05/09/2026

I talk about boundaries a *lot*. Like, a whole lot.

It's not because I think we all need to become brilliant at saying NO and fiercely protect our calendars from anyone who dares request something from us - but moreso because boundaries are actually pretty practical things.

They tell people how to work with us.
When you're available.
How quickly you'll respond.
What constitutes something urgent.
What you will - and won't - take responsibility for.
What happens when a deadline moves.
How you prefer to communicate.
Where somebody can make a decision themselves, and where they need to come back to you.

The problem is, a lot of our boundaries aren't actually boundaries.. they're expectations we've never communicated.

We think they should know you don't answer messages after hours.
Surely they know you need more notice than *this*?
I thought they understood that wasn't included.
Why do they keep asking me to approve this?

Tbh.. if we've never had the conversation, the other person is working with information they don't have, and eventually, somebody gets frustrated đŸ˜”â€đŸ’«

This applies to clients.
Contractors.
Employees.
Suppliers.
Collaborators.
And yes, even us business owners.

Good boundaries aren't about keeping people at arm's length - they're about making the relationship easier to navigate, because people generally work better together when nobody has to guess where the edges are.

What's one boundary in your business that became MUCH easier once you actually said it out loud? đŸ€”

What does “keeping the business moving” really mean? 🧐Most of the time, it’s not particularly glamorous  It’s noticing t...
03/09/2026

What does “keeping the business moving” really mean? 🧐

Most of the time, it’s not particularly glamorous

It’s noticing the email that hasn’t been answered.
Remembering the thing that needs to happen on Thursday - before Thursday arrives.
Following up with the stakeholder who said they’d come back to you.
Checking that the contractor has what they need before they have to ask.
Knowing which customer can wait until tomorrow and which one needs a [human] response today.
Spotting that two people are waiting on each other and neither of them knows it.
Remembering the tiny detail from a conversation three weeks ago that suddenly matters now.
Asking “who owns *this* part?” before something quietly falls into the gap between everyone.
And occasionally sending the message that says, “FYI - this *thing* has been sorted.”

That’s the funny thing about good operations. When it’s working well, there often isn’t a dramatic before-and-after moment. Things just
 happen when they’re supposed to.

People have what they need.
Customers aren’t chasing.
Loose ends get noticed.
The business owner doesn’t have to keep every tiny detail alive in their head just to make sure nothing gets dropped.
It can look remarkably uneventful from the outside.
But that’s because someone is paying attention.

And I reckon there’s a lot of value in being able to stop paying attention to *everything* yourself 😉

“I know I need help. I just don’t know what kind 😣”I hear some version of this a *lot*.Often it's “I think I need a VA” ...
01/09/2026

“I know I need help. I just don’t know what kind 😣”

I hear some version of this a *lot*.

Often it's “I think I need a VA” but when we start talking, what they actually mean is something about the way they're working now isn’t working anymore.

And those are two very different statements.

Yes, the answer might be an admin assistant, but it might also be an EA, an community coordinator, a bookkeeper or someone with a very specific skill set.

It might be that the person they already have could take on more, if their role, access or authority changed.
It might be a process that needs fixing.
Something technology could take care of.
A boundary that needs putting in place.
Or a piece of work that simply doesn’t need to be done anymore.

Hiring another person is an expensive way to discover you hadn’t worked out what the problem was yet.

That’s why I’m far more interested in starting with questioning what you are actually carrying?
What needs to stay with you?
What could move?
What keeps falling through the cracks?
Where are you spending time that your business no longer needs you to?
And what kind of support would genuinely make a difference - within the reality of your business, your budget and your capacity?

Sometimes we finish that conversation knowing exactly who you need.
Sometimes we discover you don’t need to hire anyone at all.
Both are good outcomes.

Generally though, the goal isn’t to "just get you a VA". It’s to make a better support decision.

If this is where you’re sitting right now, this is exactly what my Support Strategy Sessions are for. Shoot me a DM, or connect with me through the Contact page on my website - the link is in my bio, where you'll also be able to see what other ways I might be able to help you â˜ș

“Just do it how we normally do it.”Mhmm ok, yeah.. The normal way.. 😜The one that’s never been written down, changes sli...
30/08/2026

“Just do it how we normally do it.”

Mhmm ok, yeah.. The normal way.. 😜

The one that’s never been written down, changes slightly depending on the situation, and currently lives exclusively inside the business owner’s head 😅

There are so many perfectly innocent phrases we use when delegating that make complete sense to us
 and leave the person on the receiving end wondering what on earth we mean.

A few of the common faves:

→ “You know what I mean.”
→ “Use your best judgement.” (but not like *that*)
→ “It should be pretty straightforward.”
→ “Just make it look good.”
→ “Can you quickly sort this out?”
→ “Do what we did last time.”
→ “I don’t mind how you do it.” (Narrator: they minded.)
→ “You should have access to it.”
→ “I’m sure I sent that to you.”

None of these make someone a bad business owner. Most of the time, they’re a pretty clear signal that we’ve forgotten how much context we carry around in our heads.

The longer you’ve been doing something (especially if it's only ever been you..), the harder it can be to remember what another person *doesn’t* know.

That’s where your delegation skills come in - you don’t need to document every breath you take or write a 14 page SOP for how you take your tea.

You do need to give people enough context to understand what a good outcome looks like, without making them reverse-engineer your brain first.

Now tell me.. What would you add to the list of things we as business owners say that make perfect sense to us... and absolutely nobody else? 🧐

It’s such a simple question, and yet, a surprising amount of friction in support relationships starts right there..You’v...
28/08/2026

It’s such a simple question, and yet, a surprising amount of friction in support relationships starts right there..

You’ve hired someone capable.
You’ve handed over the work.
And they’re still coming back with questions, waiting for approvals, chasing passwords or asking you to send something they didn’t know existed.

From the business owner’s side, that can start to feel like "It would be quicker if I just did it myself..".

From the support person’s side?

They might be thinking that they *should* have this, or that they're not valued/trusted/capable, or even that they're no good at their job 😣

Good delegation isn’t just handing over the task - it’s handing over the context, information, access and appropriate authority that allows someone to take responsibility for it, then go about doing what they need effectively.

Before deciding someone needs more training, more initiative, more experience, or they're just not working out, it’s worth asking 1 question:

👉 Have they been given everything they reasonably need to do the job well? 👈

When you step back and look at it from the outside, sometimes the person isn’t the problem.

The gap around them is - and it's one of the easiest things you can fix 😍

The life of a self-employed person 😜
25/08/2026

The life of a self-employed person 😜

20/08/2026

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My desk/office/work zone entry is bringing me some whimsy this morning.I love that the kids give me a little reminder (w...
19/08/2026

My desk/office/work zone entry is bringing me some whimsy this morning.

I love that the kids give me a little reminder (well, I’m taking that reference of “genius” 😜) of the magic that I provide, while helping others share their magic.

The giraffe was purchased the day I went into labour with our youngest, and it makes me giggle when I think about the hill I had to walk up to get to the car after said purchase! 😂

Then there’s all the knowledge I get to absorb each time I walk past - from personal stories to stretching my brain.

What’s bringing you joy today? đŸ€©

I was recently asked what my favourite thing about self employment and small business was.My answer wasn’t what they exp...
15/08/2026

I was recently asked what my favourite thing about self employment and small business was.

My answer wasn’t what they expected 😆

It’s not working in my trackies, being close to the coffee machine, or not worrying about that end-of-day-bra-off-feeling (although, obviously, no complaints there 😜).

It’s the people.

The stories of how their businesses came to be. The challenges they’ve overcome. The ideas they can’t stop talking about. The moment their eyes light up when they tell you about something they genuinely love. What they're small (but mighty) wins are.

Seriously, it’s the downright *good* humans đŸ€©

The people who cheer when someone else wins. Who make introductions. Share opportunities. Recommend someone who technically could be called their “competitor”. Who make room at the table instead of guarding their seat.

Self employment has completely changed the way I think about competition, collaboration and leadership.

There’s something pretty special about discovering that someone else doing well doesn’t mean there’s less room for you.

Sometimes, it’s exactly how the freaking awesome magic happens ✹

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