06/11/2020
A radical rethink of our relationship to money is needed if we are to readdress the imbalances behind climate change, poverty, unhappiness and so many other social issues.
Some years ago Ken Robinson made waves in the realm of education by arguing that we need to move away from the archaic manufacturing model of education to take an approach more like organic farming. Instead of squeezing people into narrow moulds and creating compliant consumers, Robinson suggested we cultivate the uniqueness of individuals and help them find a fit in a society where they can best offer their gifts.
Nipun Mehta was a software engineer who found himself climbing the corporate ladder along with everyone else.
Mythologist Joseph Campbell once said, โ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ด ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฉ๐ข๐ฑ๐ด ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ค๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ๐ฑ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ช๐ด๐ค๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ'๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐จ ๐ธ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ.โ Midlife crisis often stems from following the scripted path of success.
Nipun felt uneasy about his place in corporate life. Instead of chatting to a financial life coach, he spoke to monks and nuns who lived on very little money. He contrasted their happiness levels to his Silicon Valley counterparts with their big bank balances. He concluded that happiness is not proportional to how much money you accumulate.
At 25, he abandoned the ladder to nowhere and spent his time volunteering before creating the not for profit, Service Space. His journey has led him to the following philosophy about finances:
โ๐ ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ๐ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐ถ๐ด๐ป ๐ณ๐น๐ฎ๐๐. ๐๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐น๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ ๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ๐ฐ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐บ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ๐, ๐บ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐ถ๐๐๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐น๐ฑ. ๐๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฏ๐, ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ด๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐๐ต ๐๐ผ ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฏ๐. ๐ช๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐๐๐๐บ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ถ๐ป๐ณ๐ถ๐ป๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ถ๐๐ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ด๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐๐ต, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐ฏ๐น๐ ๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐น๐ถ๐บ๐ถ๐๐, ๐๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐
๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ. ๐โ๐บ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐โ๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ ๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐ป๐ด๐ฎ๐ด๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ. ๐ช๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐
๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ท๐๐๐ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ ๐ป๐ฎ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ. ๐ก๐ผ๐ ๐ผ๐ป๐น๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐, ๐๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐
๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ผ๐๐ป ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ! ๐ง๐ต๐ฎ๐โ๐ ๐๐ต๐ ๐๐ผ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐ฏ๐๐ฟ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ผ๐๐. ๐ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ธ ๐๐ฒ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ ๐ฒ๐
๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐๐๐๐๐ฒ๐บ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ด๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐๐๐๐๐ฒ๐บ๐. ๐ฆ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ถ๐น๐น ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ฎ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐ถ๐ด๐ป ๐ผ๐ณ ๐บ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ๐. ๐ช๐ถ๐๐ต ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐, ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐ด๐ต, ๐๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ผ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ฝ๐ด๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฐ๐ต ๐๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐น๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐บ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ๐. ๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ปโ๐ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ธ ๐ถ๐โ๐ ๐ท๐๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฒ๐
๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐๐๐๐๐ฒ๐บ๐ ๐ถ๐๐๐๐ฒ.โ
Nipun argues we need to adopt a metaphorical shift in the way we view money, shifting from a manufacturing mindset to a gardening one. As he describes it:
๐๐ป ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป ๐๐ฎ๐, โ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒโ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฝ๐ฒ, ๐โ๐บ ๐ด๐ผ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐น๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐ก ๐๐ถ๐บ๐ฒ๐, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น๐ฒ.โ ๐๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ๐ถ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต, ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐? ๐๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐โ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฎ ๐ด๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ธ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐น๐น ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐๐ฒ ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ถ๐ป๐ฝ๐๐๐. ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ปโ๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐น ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐๐ป. ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ปโ๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐น ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป. ๐๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐น ๐๐ผ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐. ๐ฆ๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ฎ๐น๐น ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐. ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ท๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ด๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ. ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐น๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ ๐๐ฎ๐ฝ๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ฎ๐, โ๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฎ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐ผ ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐๐ฒ๐๐ฑ๐ฎ๐.โ ๐ง๐ต๐ฎ๐โ๐ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด, ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ถ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐น ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ธ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐. ๐ข๐๐ฟ ๐ฏ๐๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ ๐๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐น๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ฝ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ ๐๐ผ ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป ๐๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ป๐๐. ๐ง๐ต๐ฎ๐โ๐ ๐ด๐ผ๐ผ๐ฑ, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป๐น๐ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐๐ ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐น๐ฑ. ๐๐๐ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ปโ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด. ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป, ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฒ๐
๐ฎ๐บ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ, ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ. ๐๐ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ด๐ฟ๐ผ๐. ๐ก๐ผ๐, ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐น๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐ผ.
Read more in the full blog:
https://adifferentdrummer.com.au/career-counselling/blog-career-counselling/the-wealth-retreat