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12/10/2026

Rethinking Overwhelm

If you feel overwhelmed, it may not be because you have too much to do.

It may be because something you need has been taken away.

I've written and taught about cognitive overload for years. Then my recent conversation with neuroscientist and clinical neuropsychologist Dr Roy Sugarman made me ask a harder question. What if a lot of what we call overload is really an absence of psychological flexibility?

SO WHAT IS PSYCHOLOGICAL FLEXIBILITY?

It isn't about being endlessly adaptable or saying yes to everything. Steven Hayes and colleagues, who developed Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, describe it as being fully present in the moment and then choosing to change course or hold steady, depending on what serves the things you value.

The simplest version is three words. Be open. Be present. Do what matters.

A flexible person still feels the pressure. They just aren't ruled by it.

Roy co-authored a 2025 paper in Frontiers in Psychiatry on the model behind Soluna, a mental health platform offered to young people aged 13 to 25 across California. In that model, psychological flexibility is the end goal, and it is built from four foundations. Self-efficacy (what I do makes a difference). Autonomy (I have a say). Mastery (I'm growing). Relatedness (I'm not doing this alone).

Lose those and even a reasonable workload starts to feel unmanageable. That isn't a failure to cope. It's what happens when the foundations go.

And if that's true for you, it's true for the people you lead.

WE HAVE BEEN SOLD THE WRONG FIX

Think about how most organisations respond when people say they are overwhelmed. Inbox rules. Prioritisation workshops. A resilience program. A wellbeing app.

All of it treats overwhelm as a volume problem. Reduce the volume, or teach people to carry more of it. Very little of it asks whether people still have the foundations that make pressure bearable.

NOW SEE IT FROM THEIR SIDE

Picture the person in your team who has said "I'm drowning" most often this year.

Have they had any real say in how their work gets done? Can they see how it connects to anything they care about? When things get hard, who is in it with them?

If the answers are no, no and nobody, taking a few tasks off their plate will help for a week. Then the feeling will come back, because the load was never the whole story.

THREE QUESTIONS BEFORE YOU REMOVE A SINGLE TASK

→ Where can I give them more say in how this gets done?
→ How does this work connect to something they value?
→ Who could they be doing this alongside, rather than alone?

When your people tell you they are overwhelmed, how often do you think it is really about the workload?

07/10/2026

Your organisation's values are not on the wall.

They are whatever a stranger would write down after watching your leaders for one week.

That is how neuroscientist and clinical neuropsychologist Dr Roy Sugarman puts it to the executives he works with. He tells them he will watch how they operate for a week and then tell them what their values are. They are often shocked by the answer.

I recognise that moment. For years I have walked into organisations and asked about their purpose and values, and the reply is so often "it's written down somewhere, we'll find it" or a nod towards a poster on the wall. Then I watch what happens in practice, and the gap is enormous.

Recently I looked through people and culture roles advertised on Seek. Many promised a fantastic culture driven by strong values. Then I read the employee reviews for those same organisations, and the two rarely described the same place.

WE HAVE BEEN TAUGHT THE WRONG MODEL

The leadership industry treats values as something you write. Run the workshop, agree on the words, print the poster, launch the campaign.

However, our people don't experience values as words. They experience them as decisions. Who gets promoted. What gets tolerated from a high performer. Who gets the credit when things go well, and who gets the blame when they don't.

Roy offered one reason the gap persists. We believe what comes out of our own mouths far more than what comes out of anyone else's. Say the values often enough and leaders start to believe they are living them.

NOW SEE IT FROM THEIR SIDE

Picture the most capable person in your team sitting in your next all staff meeting while "we value our people" goes up on the screen. Now picture them remembering last Tuesday, when their request for flexibility was knocked back without a conversation.

Their brain gives far more weight to what they have lived than to what is on the slide. And when stated and lived values don't match, people stop feeling that their work is valid or authentic.

Roy sees the result in his consulting rooms. People who were thriving, until the values shifted around them. Many never say why. They simply leave, and the organisation calls it natural churn.

THE ONE WEEK TEST

Before your next values conversation, ask someone you trust to watch how your leadership team actually operates for a week. Then have them write down the five values they saw. Not the ones you hoped they would see.

Put that list beside the one on your wall.

If a stranger shadowed your leadership team for a week, which value on your wall would they struggle to find?

01/10/2026

Your organisation would never launch a product without a strategy. So why is wellbeing still a two hour workshop and a meditation app?

I was recording an episode of the NeuroCollective podcast with Dr Marie-Hélène Pelletier recently, and I found myself describing a pattern I have watched play out for years. Someone decides we need to build resilience in our people, so we bring in a speaker for a two hour workshop, perhaps add a mindfulness session, and tick the box. I told her I didn't think it was a good spend of money, because I don't believe it leads to lasting change.

MH is a psychologist, executive coach and author of The Resilience Plan, and she knew exactly what I was describing. Some people call them random acts of wellness.

However, what she said next surprised me.

THE RANDOM ACT IS NOT THE PROBLEM

MH pointed out that a random act can be a useful starting point, because people attend, they say they liked it but it wasn't enough, and suddenly a conversation has started. The problem is when the workshop quietly becomes the strategy.

Think about how your organisation treats a promising new product idea. Nobody simply runs with it, we look at the context, who else is doing it, what people will pay and what barriers might get in the way. And yet when it comes to our people's wellbeing, we skip every one of those steps and go straight to booking a workshop.

Picture the person in your organisation who organised the last wellbeing session. They probably fought hard for that budget, they probably knew it wasn't enough, and in six months someone will ask them why nothing has changed.

WE HAVE SPLIT WHAT THE BRAIN KEEPS TOGETHER

Here in Australia, work health and safety usually owns physical safety while HR owns psychological safety and wellbeing. The brain doesn't make that distinction. Moment by moment it is assessing our physical safety and our social safety at the same time, and Naomi Eisenberger's research at UCLA shows social pain and physical pain share overlapping neural systems. We have built two departments around one brain.

WHAT A STRATEGY ACTUALLY LOOKS LIKE

MH's advice was refreshingly practical. Don't make it a five year project that never gets off the ground. Start with a first version of three pillars, a few actions within each and at least one pillar built around dialogue, then reassess in six to twelve months and build from there. Her "Olympic version" is a health strategy that sits alongside the business strategy, covering physical, mental and financial health, and shaped through conversations right across the business.

It is not rocket science, but it does ask us to treat our people's health with the same discipline we give everything else.

If you looked back at your organisation's wellbeing activity over the last twelve months, would you find a strategy, or a collection of random acts?

30/09/2026

I've worked with many organisations that can point to their values on the wall. My latest podcast guest tells executives the real test is what he'd see watching them operate for a week.

Dr Roy Sugarman has spent four decades bringing neuroscience into how we understand human performance. Having directed applied neuroscience in the Performance Innovation Team at EXOS, he built a mindset model for elite athletes and has since applied it with the military and corporate teams. He co-founded Transhuman, the company behind the award-winning Be A Looper su***de prevention app, and his non-pathological theory of change underpins a mental health program supporting around half a million young people in California.

We explored what psychological flexibility is, why it matters so much for performance, and why the gap between stated and lived values costs organisations more than they realise. We also tackled a question Roy and I have both been asking for years: if the evidence is this clear, why are so many organisations still slow to act on it?

Thank you, Dr Roy Sugarman, for sharing your expertise with us.

🎧 Link in comments

28/09/2026

Picture your most experienced person. The one whose case notes and client calls just became the examples your new AI tool generates from.

Nobody asked her. Nobody credited her. Nobody paid her differently once her judgment became the training set.

That is the third equity question hiding in every AI rollout, and it is the one almost nobody answers. Who gets access to the tool. Who captures the productivity gain it creates. And whose work actually trained it.

Last time I called Equity the sleeper domain in AI rollouts, the one driving quiet compliance instead of open resistance. Most organisations have gotten reasonably competent at the first two questions. Access gets rolled out in phases, gain gets mentioned in a town hall. The third question barely gets asked, and it is the one doing the damage.

Researchers studying this exact problem in creative work have proposed what they call the three Cs, consent, credit, and compensation, as the minimum bar for treating someone's work fairly when it trains an AI system (Association for Computing Machinery, CHI 2025). Their finding was blunt. Most organisations still have no policy at all for it.

This is not only an argument about artists and copyright. One major AI developer settled with authors last year for over a billion dollars over exactly this question. If that is a serious enough fairness breach to cost a company billions when it happens to a stranger's work, it does not stop being one when it happens to your own senior person's work instead.

You cannot fix an equity threat with a town hall about job security. You fix it by answering all three questions, including the uncomfortable one.

Access, gain, or training data. Which of the three has never actually been said out loud where you work?

Research: Governance of Generative AI in Creative Work: Consent, Credit, Compensation, and Beyond. CHI 2025, Association for Computing Machinery.
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16/09/2026

You've probably already paid someone to redesign a workplace hazard. It didn't stick.

Two Neuroscience of Leadership program cohorts were never taught hazard control at all. Their redesigns held.

The program taught leaders psychological safety as an interpersonal skill: trust, empathy, how a leader's behaviour lands in a room. Nothing about incident reporting design. Nothing about policy definitions. Nothing about job design.

They redesigned all three anyway.

WHAT OUR STUDENTS ACTUALLY CHANGED

Incident reporting moved from individual blame to systems improvement, and reporting volume rose, the opposite of what you'd predict from "better conversations" alone. A punitive mandated training goal was rebuilt as a tiered learning goal. A specialist skill concentrated in one role, one point of failure, was spread across the team. Meetings got buffers between them. Check-ins were restructured so the staff member sets the agenda, not the manager.

Not one of those is a training outcome. Every one of those is a hazard control.

ORGANISATIONS ALREADY BUY THIS. IT RARELY STICKS

Most organisations know how to commission a hazard redesign: bring in a consultant, run the audit, hand down a new policy. What's harder to buy is why it unravels within a year: people follow a new process without understanding why the old one produced the behaviour it was blamed for, so it holds only as long as someone enforces it.

Picture two of our students, redesigning a five-page position description down to one page. When the document's owner joined the conversation, the pushback didn't sound like resistance. It sounded like a debate about where the files should be stored.

It wasn't resistance to change. It was someone's competence, written into every clause of a document. Once our students saw that, they stopped pushing for a single version and gave the detailed one a home too, kept a click away on a shared link. The one-page version got approved to trial.

WE HAVE BEEN TEACHING THIS BACKWARDS

For years, the industry has split psychological safety into two jobs: leaders learn the relationship skills, consultants run the hazard audit. This cohort's data suggests that split is the problem. Once a leader understood why a process produced the behaviour it was blamed for, they didn't need a consultant's redesign. They built one that held, because they understood the hazard from the inside.

However, that understanding didn't come from a workshop. It came from eighteen months of learning to see behaviour as a symptom of a system, not a character flaw. And once you can predict where resistance comes from (whoever built the flawed process, every time), you can plan for it instead of reading it as obstruction.

Maybe the fix was never another consultant. It's teaching the leaders who see the hazard every day how the brain drives the behaviour producing it.

08/09/2026

We're celebrating YOU today, Astrid Kuivasaari! Congratulations on completing the Advanced Diploma of Neuroscience of Leadership.

Astrid, you've achieved something exceptional. Your drive to improve outcomes and lead with purpose in the not-for-profit sector has been impressive, and we know you'll continue to create real, meaningful change. We couldn't be prouder!

Thank you for helping us change the world, one brain at a time.

Congratulations from Team NeuroCapability!

07/09/2026

There is someone on your team you have privately filed as the negative one. They are doing a job nobody has named.

They catch the risk early, or they push for the option no one else raised, and it reads as pessimism or as running too far ahead. What it actually reflects is a motivational orientation that sits a long way from the team's dominant one, which means their attention is on the part of the decision everyone else is not looking at.

That person is not the drag on the room. They are the reason the room has a fuller picture than it realises, and nobody has told them so. Rooms learn fast, though. Eventually they stop offering it.

This is the kind of pattern I am covering on Thursday in Your Team Has a Pattern Nobody Has Named Yet. What different combinations predict about the way a team decides when the stakes are real, and where each one tends to get it wrong.

Free, forty five minutes, 5:30pm AEST. The recording goes to everyone who registers, so sign up even if the time does not suit. Link in the comments.

Who is that person on your team?

Based on the regulatory focus research of Heidi Grant Halvorson, PhD and E. Tory Higgins.

07/09/2026

🎉 Huge congratulations to -Lyn Hii on completing the Advanced Diploma of Neuroscience of Leadership!

Ming-Lyn, you've done it! Your dedication alongside your work in employment relations has been outstanding. We're so excited for you and can't wait to see the incredible difference you'll continue to make.

Thank you for helping us change the world, one brain at a time.

Congratulations from Team NeuroCapability!

03/09/2026

EY is paying up to $25,000 for judgement.

KPMG rebuilt its audit internship around critical thinking. PwC US is training empathy alongside AI proficiency.

The Big Four have just put a price on human capability.

Nobody has explained how you develop it.

Judgement under pressure is a brain state. When the brain reads threat, prefrontal function drops out, and your judgement goes with it. Same for adaptability. You cannot spot-award your way past that.

You can learn it. Starting with your own brain.

Leading Self with the Brain in Mind builds it in you. Seven modules on what drives your behaviour, the five things that reliably tip your brain into threat, regulating emotion under pressure, and the attention judgement needs. Fourteen weeks, six live calls, six people. 7 CPD points, 5 ICF CCE units. Opens 14 September.

The Advanced Diploma of Neuroscience of Leadership builds your ability to do it for others. Reading what drives someone else, designing work that does not put people into threat, taking a team through change with their thinking intact. Nationally accredited, four study terms.

The $995 for Leading Self is credited against the Diploma if you go on within three months. So there is no wrong place to start.

Comment BRAIN and I will send you the detail.

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