17/05/2026
Have you been using the word “shy” to describe your little one? 💛
I shared something to my stories the other day and the response from you guys was so overwhelming that I felt it deserved a permanent spot on the grid…
I shared that I’ve never really liked the word “shy” for children.
People used to say it about my Zoey and I would gently, and intentionally, correct them in front of her…
“Ahh, she’s not shy… she just needs a moment to warm up” I’d say ☺️
Because with her cousins she wasn’t shy.
At home she wasn’t shy.
And once she felt safe and comfortable, her personality absolutely shone ✨
And I think sometimes children can internalise those labels and begin walking into situations already believing: “I’m shy.”
When really… they may simply need time.
Time to observe.
Time to feel safe.
Time to connect.
I believe the language we use around our little ones matters so much 💛
Because eventually, so much of what we say to them, and about them, can become part of their inner voice.
Our words can encourage and strengthen… but they can also quietly limit, discourage or define 🥹
So I always want to be intentional with mine… speaking life, confidence and truth over the little hearts entrusted to me 🫶🏼✨