19/12/2025
As the year draws to a close I reflect on my work this year - mostly Employment Investigations, one particularly highly complex and involved one that took up most of the year (nationwide NZ organisation) and several smaller (mainly Canterbury, NZ) ones alongside it, a little West Coast (NZ South Island, where i solely operated from 2017-2023) work here and there but more general HR Support such as employment agreements, disciplinary, high absences, restructuring, and leadership/communication coaching.
I have learnt a lot especially about the importance of psychological safety in the workplace and the various personalities that can manipulate and convince others they are not breaching their employment agreements or company policies.. some of them who refuse to take accountability for anything they did wrong or show genuine remorse and who continue battling their employer even though I had Ministry of Justice tell one of these people who was trying to complain about my investigation report that it was fine and that in fact they had breached the Privacy Act in sending it to them (karma is my religion and this was satisfying!) it’s hard but satisfying exposing what I call “dark personality types” according to what I called “the black book” I’ll post a link to in the comments - narcissism, Machiavelli (the most manipulative), and psychopathy.. I wonder if we all have tendencies at times in our shadow selves, but that some of us have something quite different at our core - we genuinely want to treat others as they want to be treated and show respect at all times to others whilst remaining firm on asserting our own boundaries and taking care of our own needs but not at the expense of others (think win-win) or putting an employer at risk then blaming someone else rather than taking accountability and responsibility for our actions..
Anyway, it has been a rewarding year but I did have some personal health issues crop up briefly near the end but these are over now and I’m back on track, oh and I’ve moved to Melbourne Australia as I have a lot of family here and going to do my music career outside of NZ now again like when I lived in London 2010-2012. I’m still doing NZ HR and Employment Investigations work remotely from here too, just like most of my work this year was remote from where I lived in Nelson, NZ, for employer clients elsewhere in NZ. I’m happy to announce I’ve just wrapped up 2 in the last few weeks (including one last night I only started this month).
Thanks to all who gave me work (you know who you are, including Mike Johnson at Essential HR Canterbury) and all the positive feedback from clients who were able to take action after what my independent employment investigations revealed.
I’m happy to announce I was paid for the outstanding invoice I complained about in a previous post but it teaches me who I will and won’t accept work from as clients - not recommended if it’s going to expose a client’s long-term neglect to address or resolve multiple bullying allegations that they are actually behind and pretending they aren’t the whole time and managing to successfully convinced those around them that they are “good people”.. what a nightmare!
Anyway I do believe in the power of people to change once they are fully exposed and to be given a second chance but I also am always wary if there is a pattern of behaviour that negatively affects others and the person doesnt seem to care let alone own up to doing anyrhing wrong whether it will ever change..
Here’s to an even better 2026 than 2025 whatever it holds in store for us all, may all my clients prosper as businesses after doing the right thing by their people and tackling toxicity in the workplace and preventing successful Personal Grievances, as I have always worked to do.
And interesting about all the NZ employment law changes this year and coming up next year!
I’m also looking into employment investigation requirements if I was to do it in Victoria, Australia, and I’m excited to see a recent local law change and new focus on psychosocial hazards and minimising/eliminating these in the workplace under Occupational Health and Safety legislation here.
Cheers, wishing you all a safe happy fun Christmas holiday period and a 2026 where all your dreams come true and more!
From
Layla (and my dog Luna!) currently house sitting a mansion in Melbourne!