28/05/2026
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐๐ค ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ:
Your limiting beliefs.
How do I know that?
Because I had them, too!
You see, before I started coaching, I thought of that line of work as a scam. I saw people talking about becoming a life coach, creating a business and leaving their stable jobsโฆ but I was convinced those were all paid actors.
That was the first limiting belief.
At that time, I was a full-time Primary School Teacher, the source of several other limiting beliefs.
One was the story that I developed about how I just didn't have the time to run a coaching business.
The other was impostor syndrome.
I thought, "Who am I to coach people? I'm just an teacher. I've never coached before and I don't have a program. I'm not ready for this."
Finally, there was the good old limiting belief that I needed to be the best to succeed.
Do you recognise yourself in some or all of these?
Well, let me tell you how I got over my limiting beliefs - it might resonate with you more than you expect!
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๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ, ๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐จ๐๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ญ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฒ.
I actually met those who gave the testimonials that Iโd watched and read.
And when I started doing my own programs and getting results, those I coached began giving their own testimonies!
๐๐๐๐จ๐ง๐, ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ง๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ ๐๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐จ๐๐๐ก.
So, I took a years leave without pay from my permanent teaching job and started working on my coaching program.
It was great to go all inโฆ or so I thought. I realised the year without pay left me with a safety net and I was telling myself the story that if it didnโt work out I had a year off to heal and then I could go back to teaching.
So I pulled the pin and resigned from my job!
It might seem like an insanely brave decision to just make that cutโฆ
But if you take a closer look, you'll find that it's all about pursuing the calling that you love. At that point, it's no longer a thing of courage but of pure necessity!
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๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ, ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐'๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ง๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ.
And that's total crap!
All you need to do is be consistent, learn through doing and stay one chapter ahead of the person you're coaching.
Now that you've read my story, you can deal with your limiting beliefs, too.
Russell Gilbert