27/08/2026
Resiliency comes in many forms.
Going through IVF was one of the most overwhelming, gruelling experiences of my life. I was determined to have a daughter later in life, with just a 20% chance, according to my doctor.
I brought the same "positive, can-do" energy that had always worked for me, in life, in business. I had a goal. I believed effort and hard work would get me there.
Then the first round failed. I was devastated. My positivity cracked. More negative results followed.
It took time to stop pushing so hard against something I couldn't control by sheer will.
So I slowed down. I kept believing, but more lightly this time. I stressed less. I went back to a practice I love: making vision boards for my future. That board was the first to include images of play and children.
And somewhere in that lightness, the dream came true. Not on my timeline, but at the right time.
Today, my 4-year-old daughter and I make vision boards together.
Resiliency isn't always about pushing harder. Sometimes it's about learning when to loosen your grip.