Vicky Murgatroyd Coaching & Healing

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Vicky Murgatroyd Coaching & Healing Hey, I'm Vic - somatic & shamanic healing and NLP to help you elevate your life and business

14/10/2026

Every time you behave badly in response to your partner’s bad behaviour, you give your power away. THEY are determining how YOU show up, and I have never seen that generate a better outcome for either party.

Take that choice back and you’ll be able to sit back and honestly observe whether their behaviour is something you want more or less of in your life

13/10/2026

If your partner feels like a stranger when conflict hits, here’s what’s actually happening.

In ordinary moments you have access to the wholeness of them - warmth, humour, capacity for connection, etc. But then conflict hits and suddenly they’re defensive, cold, unreachable…& you’re left thinking who tf is this? Where did my person go??

THAT is the moment your own protective patterns fire - in response to theirs firing in the first place.

As ever, this isn’t to excuse behaviour, but it is to make it feel less personal and so activate you less in response - breaking the conflict cycle.

12/10/2026

Same moment, completely different experiences. When you get this, you stop trying to validate your own experience and get curious about your partner’s.

11/10/2026

Why does aallllll your ‘stuff’ come up in relationships??

This take gives clients (& me) so much clarity and peace and I hope it does the same for you 🙏

10/10/2026

What is emotional safety?

09/10/2026

Empathy vs emotional merging - fix this and you’ll fix fights in half the time

(and outright avoid some of them even starting!)

08/10/2026

Who are you when you’re 100% secure in yourself?

Access this version of you NOW. Get to know them and how they handle the things that trigger you now & ‘try on’ this energy every chance you get.

I’m 15 years of experimenting with this stuff, this is the quickest path I’ve found to growth. It works by bypassing your mind’s natural linear approach to create deep reliable change so much faster.

07/10/2026

This ONLY applies when you know (in non-triggered moments at least) that your partner cares about your needs & wants to meet them but sometimes struggles when emotions get big.

06/10/2026

A reason, a season or a lifetime. Your body usually registers before your mind catches up.

05/10/2026

Every part of yourself you hide out of fear it won’t be accepted is a part of yourself you’ve decided isn’t worthy of love.

You want actual, reliable, unshakable love? This is where it starts and it’s all completely within your control 🙏

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