24/11/2021
Tactics: Are you here for Hooking-up or Getting Hitched?
Every had the feeling that someone is pretty keen on you?
You know the signs:
👋🏻 Giving you the eye
👋🏻 Sending you suggestive messages to get you to bite;
👋🏻 Pretending to be interested in what you’re talking about
👋🏻 Finding any excuse to talk to you, even if it’s ‘So how you doing?’
Wait what? Dating?
No I’m talking about
Let me be clear there is nothing wrong with coming on strong when you are really keen, heck I have never been accused of being understated in dating or in life generally.
The difference is the energy you put behind it.
Or more specifically the INTENTION.
You see, if you’ve been around the block a few times, you can usually pick up on a vibe that someone is giving off.
🤮 They’re disingenuous;
🤮 They’re saying empty phrases;
🤮 They continue to message you after you’ve politely declined.
QUESTION: What is it about online connections that makes us forget that there is a person the other side of your repetitive mouse clicking?
Sales, like flirting, is an art form. It’s about elevating status, adding genuine value and coming at it from a place of service.
Dare I say, that if you really want to cultivate a LTR with your prospects you can’t do it without love. You really can’t.
And love takes care, and genuine connection, and genuine relationship.
THE MORAL OF THE STORY.
There’s nothing wrong with swiping right on a stack of connections to find the prize but if you want long term, sustainable connections with your dream clients you have got to put real heart, care and intention behind every message.
That’s what we do with our clients day in, day out with our Flirt to Convert™️ strategy.
Tell me, friend how’s your flirting game going?