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Are you in the process of separating or considering separating?It makes me very happy when my clients follow these 3 rul...
26/05/2026

Are you in the process of separating or considering separating?

It makes me very happy when my clients follow these 3 rules and helps them reduce time, money, and stress during their separation.

🧡 Download our preparation checklist - link in BIO
🧡 Don’t listen to well meaning family and friends on financial and legal advice
🧡 Don’t listen to your ex partner on financial and legal advice

Remember, your family and friends will want the best for you. They will offer you love, and support at this challenging time. ☝️They do not always know what that looks like from a financial and legal perspective.

You and your ex-partner may be amicable and truly believe you ‘have one another’s back’. Unfortunately, this may change as the separation moves forward. ✋ Sharing advice from your lawyer with your ex partner is not a great idea. ✋ Trusting your ex partner’s legal and financial advice can be equally detrimental.

Of course, we guide you through your separation from a financial perspective in so many ways but right here ☝️will ensure you are starting on the right foot for a less stressful separation 🙌😌

Make sure you take some time out for yourself this week Julie x

🧡 My client had built a successful career as a senior executive in a large corporation. Her husband, a financial adviser...
20/05/2026

🧡 My client had built a successful career as a senior executive in a large corporation. Her husband, a financial adviser, managed their finances throughout their 20-year relationship. While she occasionally asked questions about their financial affairs, answers were vague - and life, as it does, got busy with work and raising children.

She knew they owned property, shares, and had a self-managed super fund, but she rarely saw documentation. Over time, she signed papers without fully understanding their content, trusting that everything was as it should be.

It wasn’t until the relationship ended that the blindfold came off.
During the legal process, she discovered there were numerous bank accounts and loans she had never known about - some in her name.

🧡 That’s when she reached out to me.

As a forensic accountant, I helped her piece together the full financial picture. We worked through the details - assets, liabilities, transfers, structures - and she began to understand just how complex their financial arrangements were.

With that clarity came confidence. She was able to make informed decisions and engage with her lawyer from a place of knowledge, not fear.

If you’re navigating separation and feel unsure about the numbers - know that you’re not alone, and support is available. Julie xx

🤷‍♀️My clients’ biggest regret in separation and divorce is not being amply prepared or thinking 💁‍♀️ ‘’Surely that won’...
14/05/2026

🤷‍♀️My clients’ biggest regret in separation and divorce is not being amply prepared or thinking 💁‍♀️ ‘’Surely that won’t be necessary for my situation. That would never happen to me’’
And so we collated a -first thing’s first- Preparation for Separation CHECKLIST everyone should refer to before even considering dealing with separation from a financial perspective.
Head to our website: www.simplesplitfinancials.com.au or jump@to our BIO and download it right now! 🙌

09/05/2026

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When you’re going through a separation, the numbers can feel unclear—or even overwhelming.❓Where has the money gone?
❓Wh...
07/05/2026

When you’re going through a separation, the numbers can feel unclear—or even overwhelming.
❓Where has the money gone?
❓What’s been spent, saved, or transferred?
❓Are there any gaps or red flags?
As a forensic accountant working in family law, I help clients take a deep dive into their financials - examining the detail behind the bank statements, tax returns, and transaction history.
Together, we uncover:
🔍 How money moved through the relationship
🔍 Patterns of spending and saving
🔍The financial position—what’s there and what’s not
🔍 Any inconsistencies or concerns
This clarity gives you the confidence to make informed decisions about your next steps 🌈
🧡 Reach out if you’re starting (or in the middle of) your separation and need help making sense of the financial side.
Julie xo
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05/05/2026

Grateful to be featured by Kochie’s Business Builders this week 🧡🤩

For me, Simple Split Financials has never just been about the numbers. It is about helping women feel clearer, and more in control during one of the most overwhelming times in their lives.

Anything that helps me spend less time behind the scenes and more time supporting my clients is a win.

My recent partnership with mySMB.com’s AI guides has truly been a game changer. I’ve streamlined a lot of the operational side of the business freeing up more of my time 🙌

The added bonus has been that AI has become a lot less ‘scary’ and I can now see and understand how to integrate it with my business effectively.

Note to self for the next time you may find yourself in a challenging conversation with your ex-partner👇“Whenever we tak...
03/05/2026

Note to self for the next time you may find yourself in a challenging conversation with your ex-partner👇

“Whenever we take a pause before replying we respond,
if we reply immediately it is a reaction.” 🙌
Source: Amita Parwal - Communication Strategist

Or, you may be receiving emails and texts during your separation from a high-conflict ex-partner...
Here are some tips from Mia Madafferi at

👉 Step away from your device and don’t respond immediately
👉 Decide if the message requires a response
👉 Remind yourself of your truth and values
👉 Be courteous and factual if you choose to respond

At Simple Split Financials we know there are multiple layers that complicate the separation process. We can’t control the people we communicate with but we **can** control our own actions in the hope of a more favourable outcome 🌈

🧡 You’ve got this!

29/04/2026

Financial stress is something many of us carry.

It can feel hard to talk about and shame is often at the heart of that, particularly for women.

During separation, those feelings can intensify and start to shape our thoughts and behaviours around money.

If this is you, you’re not alone 🧡 Some of this may resonate…

“How did I let this happen?”
“I should have paid more attention to our finances”
“I’ve left myself too vulnerable”
“I don’t even know where to start”
“What if I make the wrong decision now too?”

Avoiding looking at accounts, debts, or super
Delaying gathering financial documents
Putting off meetings with lawyers, accountants, or advisors
Hoping things will “just work out” without fully engaging

The longer we avoid that feeling of shame, the more it starts to run the show in our financial decisions, at times when the stakes are actually really high such as during a separation.

This is one of the key roles I play during separation 🧡 Helping you step back from the emotion and move forward with clarity, confidence, and a stronger understanding of your financial position and the decisions you may have to face.
I love seeing so many incredible women leading the conversation and helping others build a healthier, more empowered relationship with money.

Tomorrow night, Helene (Thinkbowl Mindset Marketing & Media) and Naomi (Her Money Matters) will be speaking about shame around money - how it shows up, how to understand it, and how to start unpacking it - as part of what promises to be a beautiful fireside panel hosted by The Women’s Well Eastern Suburbs.

📍 Clovelly Surf Life Saving Club
🎤 Facilitated by Dr Marjorie O’Neill MP

It’s a free event - you can reserve your spot here

https://loom.ly/36e2c0Y

Do you have a friend going through a divorce or separation?Do you feel like a helpless onlooker?Far too often, and parti...
18/04/2026

Do you have a friend going through a divorce or separation?
Do you feel like a helpless onlooker?

Far too often, and particularly through separation - we are overwhelmed by a lack of knowledge around our finances, our ex partner’s finances and the property settlement process.

Knowledge gives us the confidence to make smart decisions around money 💰 and that is precisely what I am here for🧚🏻 I will help you 👇

🧡 Understand the property settlement process
🧡 Understand your finances - your assets, liabilities, expenses and income and what are ‘contributions’
🧡 Gather and collate the financial documents required by your family lawyer
🧡 Visit your lawyer with you so you don’t miss a beat!
🧡 Help you plan your new life from a financial perspective

If you know of anyone who may be going through or about to go through a separation, I would love the opportunity to have a quick chat. My business is www.simplesplitfinancials.com.au and I am so proud to have helped many women not only survive but thrive through separation from a financial perspective. Julie xx

16/04/2026

I had the best conversation with Carolyn from on her podcast Divorce With Carolyn.

We talked about what a forensic accountant actually does in a property settlement, how to protect yourself financially when things get complicated, and why so many women walk away from this process discovering they were never bad with money – they just weren’t in control of it.

Head to for the link

https://pod.link/1880620916/episode/QnV6enNwcm91dC0xOTAwNTMwNg

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