12/06/2022
The 3 biggest reasons why 80% of MARRIAGES Fail.
1.NEGLECT
You feel, your partner thinks you no longer matter, they no longer care about you.
Its important to feel that you matter! That they care about you, that they are proud of you.
The relationship becomes 'cold,' and you 'disconnect.'
You feel, eg; they take more care of their car than you. They put all their 'attendence' into you when first married, now that's not a priority. 'Complacency' and 'laziness.'
2.CONTEMPT
When your partner talks nicer to others than you.
Question: Would you get verbally abusive with someone you werent close with?
Question: No, so why would you be this way with your husband/wife but not others?
Answer: Because you couldn't get away with it. Eg; if you spoke like this at work, you,d be gone! If you did this on the street to a stranger, you could get punched.
3.SEX (loss of desire)
Both men and women feel most 'desire' when their partner is 'confident.' Eg; when they're partner is not 'needy.'
This in itself is errotic and seductive.
What they don't want, is to be your 'caretaker.'- an 'anti-aphrodisiac.'
Note:
If you have any common flaws like these, and are wondering where they came from, 'the truth is' you learnt them from your own 'parents.' From our parents we learn things like trust, communication style, romance, etc.
# Other reasons for divorce:
4. External influences (outside the 'nuclear family').
5. Different 'love definitions.'
6. Mental health.
