16/07/2021
Flexibility v Rigidity
There is a strong argument for boundaries when you run a business. You need time for yourself. You need to look after yourself as you can't help others if you are empty but what happens when:
1. There is an incident - all hands on deck to get it sorted!
2. There is a government change (think Covid border closures, yet again) and you have workers working on both sides. You step up and get things sorted. (10.30pm on a Friday night emailing letters of authority to workers needing to cross the border, yep!)
3. There is a health crisis involving a key worker or manager - you step up.
You get the picture.
When does this become abuse of your goodwill?
I would argue that
a. It is abuse when it becomes expected or assumed.
b. It is abuse when the person allocating the work is not mucking in to get things done too.
c. It is abuse when there is no downtime to recover before the next disaster.
As a business owner there are only so many dramas you can cope with from your staff, only so many shifts you cover, dilemmas you solve and after hours calls/texts you take before it is time to part ways.
I am lucky so far that I have been able to choose the ethical and respectful clients I work with. I do work out of hours for them, absolutely, but it is usually because I offer or they ask nicely, not because it is assumed I am at their beck and call.
I like my clients. Thank you.