30/11/2024
DECEMBEARD STARTS TOMORROW! "I'd had my head up my arse for too long. At least a year, maybe four.
I ignored the symptoms, made excuses and sucked it up when I shouldn't have - blood in the toilet, excessive visits to the dunny around the clock, sudden weight loss, abdominal cramps, and saturating night sweats. All things I could find an excuse for.
I was very fit for my age (47 at the time), daily exercise and footy on weekends, but the pandemic locked down the planet and it felt like physical changes I had ignored for a long time soon came to the fore.
So, in January 2021, I had a colonoscopy that found a 5cm tumour on my colon.
I named that tumour Bruce after a former neighbour who was a total pain in the arse.
I had to undergo six sessions of chemotherapy, two months after surgery, when it was confirmed as Stage 3 cancer.
This meant not working for six months, in fact it meant I would feel crap for most of it – physically and mentally.
Making simple decisions to do small things like fold washing became unbearable. I felt utterly useless… So, anxiety became a side effect.
Some days it was background noise other days it was simply mapping out a walk and making sure I knew where the public toilets were… because after bowel surgery and chemo, sometimes, just sometimes, that fart may not be a fart!
Absurdly, all this was avoidable had I acted as soon symptoms appeared. Seeing a GP for a checkup and a colonoscopy would have detected the tumour when it was a polyp, had it cut out during the procedure, and then more than likely I would have gone on with my life as normal.
I’m fortunate to be able to do all the activities I enjoyed before my diagnosis, but others aren’t so lucky.
So, don't ignore symptoms, get checked early. It can save your life." ~ Daron.
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