12/02/2025
Don't blame me for changing; blame yourself for hurting me. You cheated and lied to me. Now you're blaming my attitude...would I have changed if you hadn’t betrayed me? Would my mental health have suffered if you had treated me right? No!
You destroyed our relationship. I wouldn’t be angry, I wouldn’t have trust issues, I wouldn’t overthink...if you had stayed loyal. And now you're making it seem like it's all my fault? You must be kidding me.
You act like I'm the villain when in reality, I'm just the person who got hurt. You made me doubt myself, question my worth, and lose faith in love. You think I enjoy being this way? I didn’t wake up one day and decide to have trust issues. I didn’t ask to overthink every little thing. I didn’t want to change, but you gave me no choice.
Do you know how hard it is to heal from something like this? To pretend I’m okay when I’m not? To battle my own thoughts every single day because of the damage you caused? You broke my heart and expected me to stay the same? That’s not how it works.
And the worst part? You don’t even take responsibility. You blame me, saying I changed, I became toxic, I became distant...but do you ever ask yourself why? Do you ever think about how your actions pushed me to this? No, because it’s easier for you to make me the bad guy.
But I won’t let you twist the story. I’m not the problem. I reacted to the pain YOU caused. If you had been honest, faithful, and kind, none of this would’ve happened. So don’t point fingers at me like I ruined us. You did that all by yourself.
-THE WIFE DIARY
