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TP Coaching Services Hi, I'm Mary Anderson. Life & Business Coach.

My mission is to support women through demanding stages of life, helping them find clarity when life feels heavier than it should.

Nobody tells you that doing it right or wrong —still comes with grief.I remember the excitement of deciding to start a f...
01/06/2026

Nobody tells you that doing it right or wrong —

still comes with grief.

I remember the excitement of deciding to start a family.

The trying.

The heartbreak of losing one along the way.

The long road before finally hearing —

you're pregnant.

Each child arrived differently.

Each one stretched me in ways I never expected.

Each one filled me with a joy I still can't fully put into words.

And as I reflect on it —

motherhood has had its ups and downs.

It still does.

But it's nothing I take lightly.

The goal was simple.

Bring them up healthy, happy, loved.

Give them the foundations.

And then —

watch them build their own life from it.

Which is exactly what happened.

They took what they needed.

Left what didn't fit.

And walked confidently into their own story.

That's the success.

That's what you work toward.

And somehow —

it still breaks your heart a little.

Feeling your heart burst with pride

and quietly grieve the same moment

at the exact same time —

that's the part nobody prepares you for.

That's the truth of loving someone

into their own life. 💛

Growing up believing you would never quite be enough for themis an exhausting way to live.And somehow…you carry that fee...
28/05/2026

Growing up believing you would never quite be enough for them
is an exhausting way to live.

And somehow…
you carry that feeling into adulthood.

Still believing you’ll never fully get it right.

That they’ll always find something.

Something you said.
Something you did.
Something you didn’t do.

And the hardest part?

Even when they are kind…
part of you doesn’t trust it.

Because as a child, love and approval often came with confusion.

“What did I do right?”

Or worse…

“What did I do wrong this time?”

That kind of conditioning changes you.

It teaches you to question warmth.
To brace for disappointment.
To wait for it to be taken away.

So part of you stays stuck there.

Still longing.
Still hoping to hear the words you needed most.

You are enough.

Not because of what you achieve.
Not because of how much you give.
Not because you finally got everything “right.”

Just because you are.

That longing doesn’t disappear on its own.

But it can begin to heal. 💛

Most mums are so hard on themselves they forget every good thing they've ever done.The long days and nights.The impossib...
27/05/2026

Most mums are so hard on themselves they forget every good thing they've ever done.

The long days and nights.

The impossible decisions made with no instruction manual.

Going from mum to friend and back to mum again.

Loving, nurturing —

then holding a boundary they hated you for.

Some days feeling like you were spiralling.

Other days feeling like you absolutely smashed it.

And then something shifts.

You're not sure when it started.

But there's a distance now between you and the child you gave everything to.

And the grief of that —

nobody prepares you for that either.

Here's what's true though.

You were never following a map.

You were making one.

Imperfectly.

Lovingly.

The same way every mother before you did.

Are you being as kind to yourself as you would be to any other mother you know? 💛

26/05/2026

There’s a side of business ownership people don’t talk about enough.

The emotional relationship with money.

Not just profit.
Not just sales.
Not just numbers.

The pressure.
The fear.
The guilt around charging.
The overthinking.
The avoidance.
The panic when things feel uncertain.
The habit of pouring into everyone else while neglecting yourself.

I’ve seen business owners work incredibly hard…
while silently carrying financial stress in the background.

And over time, that stress affects more than business.

It affects your confidence.
Your decisions.
Your energy.
Your relationships.
Your ability to switch off.

Sometimes it’s not lack of strategy.

It’s the relationship underneath it all that needs attention.

Because money tends to amplify what’s already happening internally.

So today I wanted to share a free guide for business owners:
“The Business Owner's Relationship with Money.”

A simple resource to help you reflect on the patterns, beliefs, emotions, and behaviours that may be shaping the way you operate in business and life.

If you’d like the free guide:
Check the link in the comments. 💛

— Mary Anderson
TP Coaching Services

Nothing prepares you for motherhood.No books, no advice, no map. Nothing.The love you feel is indescribable.It touches y...
25/05/2026

Nothing prepares you for motherhood.

No books, no advice, no map. Nothing.

The love you feel is indescribable.

It touches you at the core of your being.

The umbilical cord gets cut.

But the energetic tie never leaves.

Nobody prepares you for the highs and lows.

The days you feel you've failed.

The decisions you believed were right in the moment —

that you'd see differently later.

You promised yourself you'd do things differently.

And that's where it starts.

The questioning.

Not once.

Over and over.

Did I do enough.
Was I too much.
Could I have done better.

That's not failure talking.

That's love that cares so deeply it replays every moment looking for where it fell short.

You got it wrong sometimes.

That's true.

But you also showed up.

You also loved.

You also gave your children something no one else on this earth could —

you.

The question isn't whether you were perfect.

Nobody is.

The question is —

are you being as kind to yourself as you would be to any other mother you know?

Stay with me this week. 💛


All women want the same things.Happiness. Connection. Fun. Love.Even in the hectic, messy, never-ending moments of life....
21/05/2026

All women want the same things.

Happiness. Connection. Fun. Love.

Even in the hectic, messy, never-ending moments of life.

But when life keeps piling it on — the demands, the noise, the responsibility — it gets so hard to catch your breath.

You start doubting yourself.
You get frustrated over the small stuff.
You snap at people you love.
You feel ick inside — and you can't explain why.

Part of you just wants to scream: "Shut the f*** up — ALL of you."

The pressure. The expectation. The weight of being everything to everyone.

And your body? It starts talking too.
Tense shoulders. Pounding headaches. Doctor visits with no real answers.
Because stress doesn't stay in your head — it lives in your body.

And then — layered right on top of all of it — menopause.
The brain fog. The sleepless nights. The moods that come from nowhere.
The feeling that your own body has become a stranger to you.
Nobody warned you it would feel like this.

You keep going anyway. Because that's what you do.

But deep down, you're exhausted. Unseen. Unheard. And wondering — is this really what life was supposed to feel like?

💬 If any of this resonates — comment ME below. I see you.

This was me. Through my 30s and into my early 50s.

Businesswoman. Mother. Wife. Daughter. Stretched so impossibly thin that my body eventually said enough — autoimmune issues, colitis, depression, and yes, navigating menopause on top of it all. All while I kept showing up, kept performing, kept holding it together on the outside.

But here's where my story turns — and this part matters.

♦️I didn't wait to hit rock bottom and hope something would change.

I made a decision. I got proactive. I got constructive.

I sought out the right support for my needs — the right practitioners, the right tools, the right people who genuinely had my best interests at heart. I did the work. I trusted the process. Even when it was uncomfortable. Even when change felt slow.

That's the difference between spiralling in these seasons of life — and moving through them.

Those turning points didn't just change my health. They changed how I see myself. They built the resilience, the strength, and the self-knowledge I now bring to every woman I work with.

Because real change? It can be instant. And it takes time. Both are true — and both are worth it.

That journey is exactly why I do the work I do as a Life & Wellness Coach for women.

Wellness isn't a retreat or a supplement. It's taking ownership of yourself.
Becoming a self-led woman means being open, honest, and accepting — of your imperfections, your flaws, your full humanity. We spend so much time being our own harshest critic. In our work together, that changes.

Because you matter. Full stop.

Drop ME in the comments if this landed for you. 👇
And if you know a woman who needs to read this — share it. She'll thank you for it.

This morning’s road trip isn’t unlike dealing with some life situations!For Clarity, Direction in progressing forward wi...
12/05/2026

This morning’s road trip isn’t unlike dealing with some life situations!

For Clarity, Direction in progressing forward with Mary - Women’s Life and Wellness Coach.

Finding your way forward, is worth it.

www.tpcoachingservices.com



When Overwhelm Is Trying To Tell You SomethingWhen in shows up, are you paying Attention to it or Dismissing - Avoiding ...
12/05/2026

When Overwhelm Is Trying To Tell You Something

When in shows up, are you paying Attention to it or Dismissing - Avoiding it?

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08/05/2026

Direct Invitation

If you’ve been reading these posts this week and thinking…

“This is me.”

Then don’t scroll past this one.

Because awareness without action keeps you in the same place.

I’ve created a simple guide that shows:

– The patterns that keep you stuck
– How they show up in your daily life

No fluff. Just clarity.

If you want it, comment “READY” below and I’ll send it to you.

Or if you’re done trying to figure it out alone…

We can talk.

The Shift Most Women MissThe biggest shift isn’t working harder.  It’s understanding what’s actually driving your behavi...
07/05/2026

The Shift Most Women Miss

The biggest shift isn’t working harder. It’s understanding what’s actually driving your behaviour.

Because once you see that clearly…
Everything changes.

– Decisions become easier
– Conversations feel less loaded
– You stop second-guessing yourself

This is the work I do with women—helping them recognise the patterns they’ve been living in for years without realising it.

And once they see it… they can finally change it.

If you want a simple starting point, I’ve put it into a PDF.

Comment “SHIFT” and I’ll send it through.

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