Частна занималня Еврика

25/04/2026

Бъдещето принадлежи на тези, които вярват в красотата на мечтите си ~ Елеонор Рузвелт

20/04/2026

Различният език е различна гледна точка за живота ~ Федерико Фелини

13/04/2026

Децата не се травматизират, защото преживяват болка, те се травматизират, защото остават сами с болката. ~ Габор Мате
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I was in a terrible motor crash when I was eight. It was violent, sudden, and unforgiving. It took my legs from me. For almost a year, I couldn’t walk. I lived in a wheelchair, dependent, immobile, watching the world move on without me. At that age, when your body is supposed to feel like freedom, mine became something I had to fight just to exist inside. It's a miracle that I walk today.

Back then, though, there was nothing miraculous about it. There was only the stillness, the waiting, the slow, aching reality of a life reduced to what I could reach. I thought the hardest part was the physical loss, not being able to stand, not being able to move, the frustration of being left behind while everything else kept going.

What I didn’t realize then was that I never really processed the accident itself. It happened, and everything immediately became about recovery. There were hospital visits, routines, people helping me physically. I was taken care of in all the visible ways. But no one really sat with me in what had happened. No one slowed down enough to ask, What did that feel like for you? And I didn’t know how to bring it up either. So I didn’t. I just adjusted. I adapted. I kept going.

Years later, when I was finally back on my feet, I thought I had left it all behind me. But there was still an ache I couldn’t explain. Something unresolved that would surface in quiet moments. I wasn’t in pain anymore, not physically. But something in me still felt like it hadn’t moved on.

It was in therapy that it began to make sense. In the middle of trying to explain a feeling I didn’t fully understand, my therapist pointed me to this quote by Gabor Maté. And something clicked.

Because I could finally see it.

It wasn’t just the accident that shaped me. It was the silence that followed it. The way I had to carry the fear, the shock, the confusion on my own. Yes, people helped me heal physically. Yes, I was surrounded. But no one really entered that inner space with me; the part that was trying to make sense of suddenly not being able to walk, of everything changing in an instant. I was alone with it.

And that’s what stayed.

That’s what I had been carrying all those years. Not just the memory of the accident, but the feeling of having to deal with it by myself. Of never quite being given the space to speak it, to feel it fully, to be met in it.

That’s what Gabor Maté means. It’s not just the hurt that leaves a mark — it’s the absence of someone to help you hold it. Because pain, when shared, moves. But pain, when carried alone, settles. It lingers quietly, long after the body has healed.

And maybe that’s why it took so long to understand. Because from the outside, I had recovered. I could walk again. I was “fine.”

But healing isn’t just about getting back on your feet. Sometimes, it’s about finally turning toward the part of you that went through it alone… and letting it be seen.

06/12/2025

В очакване на Коледа 🧑‍🎄🌲

01/11/2025

Честит празник! 📜📃📚

15/09/2025

На добър час, мили деца!

14/09/2025

Учебен център "Еврика" удължава срока за записване на деца до 30.09.2025г.

Децата ще си подготвят уроците и домашните за следващия ден, като едновременно с това ще изграждат умения и навици за учене. Ще се запознаят със съвременни стратегии за усвояване на знанията.
Докато Вие сте на работа и се развивате във вашата област, децата Ви ще бъдат добре подготвени за следващия ден.

Очакваме Ви на ул. "Света гора" 1 гр. Благоевград или на тел: 0878550261.

07/07/2025

Създаването на Хари Потър

Обиколка на студиото на Уорнър Брос в Лондон, показващо постоянна експозиция от автентични костюми, реквизит и декори, използвани в създаването на филмите за Хари Потър.
Част 1

29/06/2025

29/06/2025

Папагали, чапли, пеликани и още много 🦆🦢🐿

03/06/2025

Храм, посветен на хиндуистката богиня на обучението и знанието Сарасвати. Покриването на лактите и коленете е част от етикета при посещение на хиндуистки храмове, то показва уважение към боговете и ритуална чистота, не само физическа, но и духовна.

Град Убуд, остров Бали, Индонезия