Mediation is an alternate process to the court process. Parties to a dispute appoint a neutral person, the mediator, to assist them in finding solutions
27/08/2021
Mediation Mechanics in collobiration with Society of Mediators is proud to offer a hybrid Mediation Training Programme that is online, or in person giving delegates the option. Internationally Accredited and Of the Higest Quality
Discover what Mediation is
Understand the Essential Principles
Explore skills and tools necessary to be a successful mediator
Practice and develop new skills in a safe supportive environment
Gaining a globally recognized qualification for a new profession
To find out more or receive further information.
Contact [email protected] or WhatsApp +26772292029
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01/03/2021
Accredited Mediator Training Course is starting soon. Join the participating delegates and gain the skills needed to successfully facilitate settlement and resolution of conflict. For more information contact [email protected]. Call 311 5867 and request further information
17/02/2021
Negotiation Training 3 days
Its wonderful to be back doing face to face training for the BITP Team , Transport Ministry
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16/01/2021
Do you know that it is really tough emotionally on Parents when going through a seperation or divorce. If you feel you need guidance and or support please get in touch with us, we can help you.
WhatsApp us on +267 72292029 or e mail [email protected] to find out how we can help you.
Choose to Mediate. There are many benefits for you & your family. Want to find out more
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31/05/2020
What children wish divorced parents knew
I am a family mediator. At Mediation Mechanics we help children to talk about their wishes and feelings. Child interview can take place if both parents agree and the children are about 10 or over, depending on maturity.
Giving children a voice (not to be confused with allowing them to make decisions) can empower and help children so they know their feelings are important to their parents.
Children often find it easier to speak to an impartial professional, as they can worry about hurting their parentâs feelings.
I often ask adult clients who have experienced their parentâs separation as a child, what they wish their parentâs had known at that time. Here are some of the most common answers, both from adults and Children.
What do you wish your parents had known that you didnât tell them?
1. I love you both and that wonât ever change.
The divorce doesnât make me love either of you any less. Please donât make me choose between you. I canât. I need you both.
2. I donât want to hear negative things about the other parent; it hurts me.
When you criticise each other, you make me feel insecure and anxious. Please donât criticise each other to me, or let me hear you criticising each other to anyone else. I feel protective of you both. I feel torn. I am part of both of you.
3. Tell me the truth, donât lie to me; but donât tell me all the details.
If we are moving home, I want to know so I can prepare. I donât like things being sprung on me. It makes me feel unimportant and an âafter thoughtâ. However, please donât make me a shoulder to cry on or your confidant for the divorce. Talk to your friends or even a therapist about the divorce. Nobody wants to hear intimate private information about their parentsâ marriage; even as an adult.
4. Please donât argue when I can see or hear.
I heard a lot of arguments when you lived together. I thought you separated so that you could stop upsetting each other. It hurts me that you still argue. Canât you be civil for my sake? You donât have to be friends, but I do need you to talk to each other about me. When you do I feel safe.
30/05/2020
As a loving parent, you know there's nothing more important than your child.
In fact, they might even be the very reason you and your spouse stayed together as long as you have, despite the breakdown of your marriage.
But now that you're divorcing, ensuring your child's well-being is your first priority.
And it starts with creating a sound parenting plan to outline how you and your spouse will effectively co-parent your children and share in their care and upbringing after your divorce is final.
Should you want advice on how to.... get in touch with us at Mediation Mechanics on 3115867 or 72292029 for a free 15min Consultation. Alternatively e mail us on [email protected]
05/02/2020
Who am I ?
I am a Mediator, Conflict Coach and Facilitator in Negotiation.
Improving communications in times when conflict threatens to affect relationships is my calling.
I strive to empower others. I believe that each and every one of us has the ability to resolve conflict. All that's needed is the skills set and the desire to reach a WIN-WIN solution. I can show you how.
I facilitate Internationally Accredited Mediation Training and I am the founder of the Botswana Association of Mediators and the Treasurer of the Botswana Institute of Arbitrators.(BIArb).
As a (GGA) I continue to serve those in need and give baxknto my community in a way that helps foster growth and development in line with the SDG
26/01/2020
Are you looking to resolve conflict in your life, whether at work, home or in your social circles ?
Contact Mediation Mechanics to find out how mediation can benefit and assist you in resolving disputes.
We are here to help you achieve a WIN- WIN outcome.
Are you looking to resolve conflict in your life, whether at work, home or in your social circles ?
Contact Mediation Mechanics to get a free 20 minute consultation of how Mediation can benefit and assist you in resolving disputes. We are here to help you achieve a WIN-WIN outcome. Call us on 72292029 or 3115867 alternatively e mail us on [email protected]
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I guess you are wondering what does that mean? How does conflict create opportunity ?
Allow me a brief explanation to start, of course i will go into more detail and describe what i mean by that statement. Conflict exists, all around us, every day, and in so many different situations and circumstances in our daily lives. It could be at home, at the office, in schools, in our communities and or in church and clubs. It exists between friends, siblings, colleagues employees and many other relationships.
Conflict creates the opportunity to improve communication and understanding of the other persons interests and needs. When you commit to giving mediation a try, the opportunities are endless. One of my favourite quotes include â walk into mediation and you walk into a world of possibilities.â
So simply put, if you are willing to give mediation a try, it creates the opportunity to improve relationships, by way of communication, active listening, better understanding and a flexible, empowering process, that we call Mediation.
There are so many benefits and reasons why you should consider Mediation as your first attempt at resolving a dispute. It is Confidential, Quicker, Less expensive and flexible. Itâs also without prejudice. Mediation also promotes communication and improved relationships. It promotes better understanding and flexible ways to resolve disputes.
The parties in the mediation process are responsible for the outcome or resolution of the issue at hand, and the mediator is a neutral 3rd party that facilitates the process.
Should you be interested in learning more about Mediation or other forms of Alternative Dispute Resolution,
