10/02/2022
I would like to share with you some of advices in the case if you are planning to marry to foreigner and you are already packing your bags to start your new life with HIM …
1. Ask directly! I hope you have already asked your man about future prospective living together. Asking such simple and important questions will simplify your life. For example, do you both want to have children, how many; why does man/woman need a family; what does wife/husband mean for you? Etc.
2. Don’t idealize! You should accept the moment that nobody is perfect. So your man could have his own advantages but also disadvantages. And from the beginning you should realize what you could accept or what you will never accept.
3. Be ready to study! You should study foreign language of the country where you are planning to move. You should study more about mentality of the people there, about culture, traditions in that country. It will help you to adopt better in new encouragement, to make new friends, to feel yourself like a duck to holy water. And in the case you will decide to work your language skills will help you to find a job!
4. Strengthen your spirit! You should be ready for good and bad things that could happen to you but you should believe in yourself and never regret about your own decisions. At least you are not alone you are with your man you both can rely on each other and support each other. You can do meditation; make sport exercises to explore yourself to make your spirit stronger and yourself more self-confident.
5. Relax and take it easy! Sometimes to accept extremely new changes in our life it’s not so easy, and of course we have so many thoughts about it. But I would recommend relaxing and accepting all things which are going in your own life. Being calm and relaxed will help you to avoid many problems. At least you will understand that you are a creator of your own life and everything what’s happened it’s you who really wanted that!💋