Resolved Mediation Services Inc

04/10/2024

Separation and divorce don't have to be litigious or adversarial. In fact, our legal system now mandates alternative dispute resolution as the first step.

At Resolved Mediation Services, we specialize in helping couples navigate their separation agreements without the need for courtroom battles that have unfortunately become too common.

Let's reshape the way divorce unfolds, prioritizing your mental well-being and the welfare of your children.

03/13/2024

Did you know?

A Chartered Financial Divorce Specialist (CFDS) is a professional who specializes in providing financial advice and expertise to individuals going through a divorce. Their role is to help clients navigate the financial complexities of divorce proceedings and to ensure that they have an understanding of their financial situation while navigating their divorce. Here are some of the key responsibilities and services that a CFDS may offer:

1. Financial Analysis: A CFDS will analyze the financial disclosure provided, including assets, liabilities, income, expenses, and tax implications. They help clients understand their current financial situation and evaluate the long-term financial impact of different divorce settlements.

2. Asset Division: CFDS professionals assist in the equitable division of assets and liabilities, including marital property, investments, retirement accounts, real estate, and business interests. They help clients understand the value of their assets and work to help the clients see the many options that could present themselves while working through asset division.

3. Budgeting and understanding their New Financial Situation: CFDS professionals help clients establish realistic budgets and financial plans post-divorce.

4. Tax Considerations: CFDS professionals help clients understand the tax implications of divorce-related decisions, such as asset transfers, spousal support, child support, and filing status. They can provide direction and highlight tax issues for the clients to discuss with their accountants.

5. Retirement Planning: CFDS professionals help clients evaluate the impact of divorce on their retirement savings. They assist in evaluating retirement accounts, pensions, CPP benefits, and other retirement assets.

Overall, a Chartered Financial Divorce Specialist can play a crucial role in helping individuals navigate the financial complexities of divorce and achieve a fair and equitable resolution. They can be an integral part of a divorce team along with divorce attorneys, mediators, and other professionals involved in the divorce process to ensure that their clients' financial interests are effectively represented.

03/04/2024

Hot Off the Press! The Newest Online Magazines!

I am so excited to share with you the digital launch of Divorce Magazine Canada (DMC) and the premiere of Life Changes Magazine
– your new go-to resources for navigating life's challenges and transformations. You’ll find us featured there!

DMC offers expert guidance, support, and insights for those going through a divorce, making this complex journey a bit easier to
navigate. Life Changes Magazine is all about embracing life's transitions, from career moves to personal growth, providing you
with the tools and inspiration to thrive through change.

Both magazines are now available online and ready to explore from anywhere. They're packed with valuable content designed to
empower you, whether you're facing a new beginning or seeking guidance through a major life shift.

Dive into the SPRING issues today:
- Divorce Magazine Canada: Your guide through divorce.
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02/29/2024

Do you want to be right? Or do you want to be happy?

This question permeates many aspects of our lives. In a society where being 'right' is often glorified, achieving the correct answer or accomplishing tasks the 'right' way can bring about feelings of pride and confidence.

However, how does our insistence on being right or our inclination to say 'I told you so' impact our relationships?

When one person's need to be right outweighs their willingness to seek compromise or solutions, it can severely damage relationships. Insistence on being right leaves no room for common ground, shutting down meaningful dialogue and discussions. It can leave the 'winner' feeling isolated and disconnected.

But when framed as 'do you want to be happy,' individuals might feel pressured to simply agree with whatever is suggested to "not rock the boat" and hopefully attain happiness.

Perhaps the solution lies neither in being 'right' nor in acquiescing for happiness' sake.

Maybe, true happiness lies in being 'less right' and seeking mutual solutions. Both parties must be open to curiosity about each other's perspectives and genuinely strive to understand differing opinions and perceptions.

In essence, prioritizing understanding and seeking solutions over the need to be right could lead to greater happiness for all involved."

02/26/2024

Did you know?

A Lengthy Legal proceeding can increase Stress during a Marital Breakdown

As someone who works closely with individuals navigating the complexities of divorce, I've witnessed firsthand the toll that prolonged legal proceedings can take on those already grappling with the emotional upheaval of a marriage breakdown.

Mediation can help. When working with a mediator a couple is able to move the discussions and decision making along at a pace that is comfortable for them. By reducing delays and thereby time, people are able to finalize decisions and move onto their new life.

Decreased Time = Decreased Stress

02/07/2024

Going through a divorce? Unlock the Benefits of Divorce Coaching!

Divorce can be one of life's most challenging transitions, but it doesn't have to be navigated alone. Divorce Coaching can provide you with many advantages.

Emotional Support: A divorce coach provides a safe space to express feelings, offering guidance and empathy throughout the process.

Clarity & Strategy: Gain insights into your options and create a clear roadmap for your future. A coach helps you set achievable goals and navigate complex decisions.

Empowerment & Confidence: Build the strength to advocate for yourself and make informed choices. Develop confidence to face challenges and embrace new opportunities.

Effective Communication: Learn techniques to communicate effectively with your ex-partner, ensuring smoother interactions and minimizing conflicts, especially when children are involved.

Financial Guidance: Understand the financial implications of divorce and how to secure your financial future. At Resolved, Jerusha has both a CPA and CFDS, this knowlege allows her to explain to you all aspects of your financial situation. This helps you while working with your laywers but also as you move forward in creating a plan.

Co-Parenting Support: Receive guidance on co-parenting strategies, fostering a healthy environment for your children during and after divorce.

Personal Growth: Transform the experience of divorce into an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery. A coach helps you focus on your strengths and rebuild your life with purpose.

01/15/2024

Check this out!

Resolved Mediation Services Inc. founder, Jerusha Letal joins Deena on the Life Changes Channel podcast to explain how mediation can help you resolve the conflicts in your life, whether in your relationships, family or at work.

Listen to our conversation on the podcast dropping Friday, Jan. 19th at 9:00 a.m. (MST)
Available on all players.

01/09/2024

The foundation of Resolved Mediation Services is built on the desire to help.

01/03/2024

At a time of year that is often full of anticipation and expectations of the year ahead, sometimes the path forward is unclear.

Many people wait until the New Year to make decisions or let family know about impending life changes. If you are facing relationship challenges and are at a loss of where to begin, Resolved Mediation Services Inc, is able to provide a consultation to let you know what different options for separation and divorce can look like.

Our Mission is to Help!
Help you resolve conflict!
Help you maintain relationships!
Help you move forward!

11/30/2023

An important reminder.

Divorce is undeniably a challenging and emotional process for all parties involved, especially when there are children in the picture. However, amidst the turmoil, divorce mediation has emerged as a valuable tool for reducing the negative impact on children. How can mediation help?

Reduced Conflict:
One of the primary advantages of divorce mediation is its ability to minimize conflict between parents. Traditional litigation can often be adversarial, leading to bitter disputes that can effect children. However, mediation promotes cooperation, open communication, and a more amicable resolution, creating a better situation for kids.

Child-Centered Approach:
Mediation places a strong emphasis on the best interests of the children. Mediators work with parents to develop parenting plans that prioritize the needs and well-being of the children involved. This child-centered approach ensures that important decisions, such as custody arrangements and visitation schedules, are made with the children's welfare in mind.

Reduced Stress and Anxiety:
Divorce is a stressful time for everyone, especially children. Mediation tends to be less adversarial, which can significantly reduce the stress and anxiety experienced by children. When parents are actively engaged in finding solutions together, it can help children feel more secure.

Faster Resolution:
Mediation often leads to quicker divorce resolutions compared to traditional litigation. This means that children can begin to adjust to their new family dynamics sooner, reducing the prolonged uncertainty and instability.

Improved Co-Parenting Relationships:
Through mediation, parents can develop healthier and more cooperative co-parenting relationships. When parents can effectively communicate and collaborate post-divorce, it creates a more supportive and consistent environment for their children. Children benefit from knowing that both parents are working together.

Empowerment and Ownership:
Mediation empowers parents to make their own decisions about their family's future. When parents take an active role in shaping the post-divorce arrangements, they are more likely to adhere to the agreements and feel a sense of ownership, which can lead to a smoother transition for children.

Let us Help!:
Divorce is undoubtedly a challenging experience, especially for children. However, divorce mediation offers a path towards a more positive and child-focused approach to divorce. By reducing conflict, prioritizing the children's needs, and fostering cooperation between parents, divorce mediation can help mitigate the negative impact of divorce on children and allow them to adjust to their new circumstances with greater resilience and stability.

09/20/2023

Divorce is undeniably a challenging and emotional process for all parties involved, especially when there are children in the picture. However, amidst the turmoil, divorce mediation has emerged as a valuable tool for reducing the negative impact on children. How can mediation help?

Reduced Conflict:
One of the primary advantages of divorce mediation is its ability to minimize conflict between parents. Traditional litigation can often be adversarial, leading to bitter disputes that can effect children. However, mediation promotes cooperation, open communication, and a more amicable resolution, creating a better situation for kids.

Child-Centered Approach:
Mediation places a strong emphasis on the best interests of the children. Mediators work with parents to develop parenting plans that prioritize the needs and well-being of the children involved. This child-centered approach ensures that important decisions, such as custody arrangements and visitation schedules, are made with the children's welfare in mind.

Reduced Stress and Anxiety:
Divorce is a stressful time for everyone, especially children. Mediation tends to be less adversarial, which can significantly reduce the stress and anxiety experienced by children. When parents are actively engaged in finding solutions together, it can help children feel more secure.

Faster Resolution:
Mediation often leads to quicker divorce resolutions compared to traditional litigation. This means that children can begin to adjust to their new family dynamics sooner, reducing the prolonged uncertainty and instability.

Improved Co-Parenting Relationships:
Through mediation, parents can develop healthier and more cooperative co-parenting relationships. When parents can effectively communicate and collaborate post-divorce, it creates a more supportive and consistent environment for their children. Children benefit from knowing that both parents are working together.

Empowerment and Ownership:
Mediation empowers parents to make their own decisions about their family's future. When parents take an active role in shaping the post-divorce arrangements, they are more likely to adhere to the agreements and feel a sense of ownership, which can lead to a smoother transition for children.

Let us Help!:
Divorce is undoubtedly a challenging experience, especially for children. However, divorce mediation offers a path towards a more positive and child-focused approach to divorce. By reducing conflict, prioritizing the children's needs, and fostering cooperation between parents, divorce mediation can help mitigate the negative impact of divorce on children and allow them to adjust to their new circumstances with greater resilience and stability.