03/04/2022
I can’t believe he texted that!
How & when to use phone, text, emails & in-person meetings.
I've had business owners share many frustrations regarding their people using different communications platforms. “Staff doesn't know when to just pick up the phone - wasting time on long multiple texts when it could be more effective & efficient with a 1 or 2-minute phone call.
So, here’s a lesson on best practice business communications using different technologies.
Keep in mind, only about 10-20% of interpersonal communication is words alone. Over 80% of communication works with other assets.
We have 4 primary communication assets in an interaction with another person.
· Word choice
· Facial expression
· Body language
· Tone of voice
Text & email offer words to read only. We loose 3 of our communication assets. When 80% is missing, misinterpretations are common & can be detrimental to the relationship, so be careful how you use the different technologies. When emotions are heightened, &/or the stakes are high, avoid text & email communication only to resolve problems or difficult situations. Things could get worse easily.
General rules:
1. When emotions are charged, or there is a high possibility of it, & the situation is difficult or complicated, do an in-person meeting whenever possible. Do corrective conversations with a staff member, in person & in private.
2. If you can’t do an in-person conversation, use a video call or, at the very least, pick up the phone. With phone you have 2 assets working for you. You’re still missing 2, but it can work effectively at times. Phone is quicker when discussing complex issues or situations. We talk on average at a rate of 150 words a minute. The average typing speed is 40 words per minute. Slower for two fingers. Which is more time efficient? Is your & your teams’ time valuable? Yes.
3. Use email for long, or short, detailed information delivery & when there is no emotional charge. Use it for confirmations, send details of a contract or confirm details of a verbal agreement. Send a meeting agenda or list of expectations of action items agreed too.
4. Use text for short, quick messages & confirmations. Jumping on the phone usually saves a lot of time when discussing complicated scenarios. Long back & forth texts are not efficient & clarity takes longer. Mis-interpretation possibilities are likely. Do not use text if there is high negative emotional energy present in either party.
If you think you might get a negative response, pick up the phone or go see the person. You can deal with negative responses much more effectively & turn them into win-win outcomes when you have all your communication assets working.
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