Medicine of Love

04/19/2026

Standards vs. a Shopping List: what to bring to a matchmaker — new on Medicine of Love. Learn why standards protect your peace and how a shopping list can blur what you really need in a partner. Read the full piece and get clearer about your relationship boundaries: https://wix.to/W36maO7

At Medicine of Love, one of the most important conversations I have with clients is about the difference between standards and a shopping list.They are not the same thing.Standards are healthy. They reflect your values, protect your peace, and help guide you toward the kind of relationship you truly...

04/08/2026

Serious about finding love but worried matchmaking feels too stiff? Playfulness matters. Discover why fun singles events are a vital complement to boutique, intentional matchmaking in our latest post by Janet Blower. Read more: https://wix.to/dCbgNUz

There is a common misconception in modern dating that if you are serious about finding love, the entire process must feel serious too.Careful. Strategic. Polished. Purposeful.And while intention absolutely matters, so does something else that is often overlooked:playfulness.At Medicine of Love, I be...

03/28/2026

Think height defines dating potential? Think again. New blog: “Why Shorter Men Are Great to Date” — a refreshingly honest look at why character, emotional availability, humor, and loyalty matter far more than inches. Read the full piece and rethink your checklist. https://wix.to/XwnluKH

In modern dating, height gets far too much attention.Somewhere along the way, many people began treating height as though it were a shortcut for attraction, confidence, masculinity, or relationship potential. It is not. Height is simply a physical trait. It does not tell you whether someone is kind,...

03/24/2026

Feeling stuck in modern dating? My new piece, “If Love Matters, So Should the Way You Search for It,” explores why effort alone isn’t enough—and how to cut through the noise to find deeper connections. Read it and rethink how you search for love: https://wix.to/yld4yAI

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There comes a point in modern dating when the problem no longer feels like a lack of effort.You have put yourself out there.You have tried the apps.You have had the conversations.You have stayed open.You have given people chances.And still, something about the process feels deeply unsatisfying.Not b...

03/22/2026

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Kamloops singles… maybe your soulmate is just one better decision away. ❤️

Let’s be honest — modern dating can feel like a strange mix of

false hope, awkward small talk, and people holding fish in profile photos.

That is exactly why I created Medicine of Love, a new private matchmaking service in Kamloops for people who are ready for something more genuine, more intentional, and far less exhausting.

One of the best dating tips I can offer is this: stop looking for perfection and start looking for alignment. Real connection is not always instant fireworks. Sometimes it looks more like ease, consistency, shared values, emotional intelligence, and someone who can actually hold a conversation.

To kick things off, I’m hosting my first singles event on April 25 — Date My Friend — a fun icebreaker designed to bring great people together in a relaxed, low-pressure way.

Because frankly, meeting through a friend already sounds better than another dating app disaster.

Real people. Genuine connection. Intentional matchmaking.
Take the first step today.

03/18/2026

01/15/2026

Hi friends

I have invited you here… not because I necessarily want to match you with anyone as lots of you are
Married….. but in hopes that perhaps at some point you might want to steer me towards any singles who are sick of swiping on those apps, looking for love in all the wrong places

I am not ready to open for business at this time as it is a process and I want it perfect before I officially start

Everyone knows someone searching that perfect match… Maybe it’s you ?
I want to help

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