02/12/2026
It’s nearly Valentine’s Day, that time of the year when thoughts turn to romance, gifts of flowers and candy and mushy cards – all created as signs of devotion to the ones we love the most. But in reality the origins of this most romantic of festivities dates back millennia, and has roots that are far less loving, and much more severe.
Much of the history that ultimately led to the creation of the Valentine’s Day that we cherish today has been lost to time, but there is strong evidence that its roots can be traced to the festival of Lupercalia, a fertility celebration that was popular during the time of ancient Rome. Historians believe that Lupercalia itself owed its existence to a much older pagan celebration that the Romans adopted and converted to Roman use.
The Romans actually celebrated Lupercalia on February 15th not on the 14th that we commemorate Valentine’s but the two celebrations, linked as they are by both love and date are definitely closely related. In 496 AD Pope Gelasius I converted the older Roman celebration into a Christian feast day and formally declared February 14th to be known as St. Valentine's Day.
But just who was St. Valentine? This is where ecclesiastic history becomes a bit murky. According to some sources, during the early Christian era there were no less than three individuals by that name, with more than a little confusion over who was exactly who.
One they know for certain was an early Christian priest who resided in Rome. Another was a Bishop who lived in Terni, Italy during the latter stages of the Roman Empire, while the third St. Valentines lived and preached in Africa where he apparently met a nasty end. The curious thing is that all three are said to have been martyred on Feb. 14!
It’s the Bishop in Terni, Italy and his untimely demise who is most closely linked to the celebration of love and happiness we commemorate today. Sometime around 270 AD a Bishop named Valentine came to both the attention and displeasure of the Roman Emperor Claudius II. Seeking to strengthen the might of the Roman Army the Emperor banned the marriage of young men in the army, believing for whatever reason that bachelors made better soldiers.
As can be imagined the decree was neither universally accepted nor applauded. Against the direct orders of his Emperor Valentine secretly went about performing marriages for young lovers until he was betrayed, arrested and ultimately put to death for his crime – of willfully disobeying Claudius.
But that’s not the only aspect of the Valentine story that has made its way through the ages. Another of the legends concerning this early Bishop is that once he was arrested and incarcerated, he was to fall in love himself – with no less a person than the beautiful daughter of his jailer. As the myth goes, just prior to his crucifixion he was able to pass to his beloved a letter that expressed his passion for her – signed appropriately enough – from your Valentine. For many this deathbed note represents the very first Valentine’s card.
Fortunately today’s celebration is far less harsh and almost always has a happy ending. Whether myth or Fairly Tale, the true history of Valentine‘s Day may never be known for certain. What is most definitely true is that love never goes out of fashion and that coming as it does once the worst of winter is behind us, February 14th seems the ideal time to think of warmer thoughts and of the green and happy days that the coming months will bring. So, from the management and staff of Wise Way Security, Happy Valentine’s Day to lovers everywhere!