10/21/2026
AI is getting really good at sounding like everyone, and that should make us all a bit concerned.
It's not because I think AI is bad. I use it daily, I’m fascinated by it as a tool, and I think there’s HUGE potential in what it can help us do.
But I keep coming back to this question: What happens to the part of you that AI could never have lived?
The career pivot that took courage and risk that no algorithm could ever experience.
The difficult convo that changed a peer relationship forever.
The cultural nuances that are so ingrained into who you are that they are unconscious.
The mistake you still think about at 2am.
The perspective you bring into a room because of what you’ve experienced (and not because a prompt told you to).
That’s YOUR difference. And honestly, I think we’re going to need MORE of it.
When everyone has access to the same tools that can create a clean answer in 10 secs, the value isn’t being the person with the most polished response.
It’s being the person with something REAL to say.
So yes, use AI to challenge your thinking, tighten the message, find the gap, help you see something you missed.
But don’t hand it the blank page and ask it to decide what YOU think.
Start there yourself. Ask:
What do I believe?
What gems from my own lived experience can I share?
What do I see that others might not?
Then bring that to the tech.
Swipe through for 3 questions you should be asking before hitting publish on any AI-assisted work.
And if you’re thinking about how to help your leaders develop and strengthen their own voice, visibility and influence, send me a DM. Our Own Your Difference keynote is built for this exact reason, and I'd love to share practical daily tools to support your team.