08/27/2026
A have to mindset feels like obligation.
A get to mindset feels like opportunity.
At the highest level, one of the most underrated performance skills might be remembering to have fun.
Not because the work isn’t serious.
It is.
The standards are high.
The pressure is real.
The margin for error is small.
But somewhere along the way, the pursuit of excellence can become so serious that we forget why we fell in love with the sport in the first place.
The joy of competing.
The feeling of being fully immersed.
The satisfaction of getting better.
The sheer fun of seeing what you can do.
The people you get to enjoy the journey with.
And here’s the paradox:
Fun doesn’t make you less driven.
Joy doesn’t make you less disciplined.
Enjoying the process doesn’t mean you are less ambitious.
Quote the opposite.
Sometimes, it’s exactly what allows you to access your best.
Because sport is never a have-to.
It’s a get-to.
And that mindset changes everything.
If you’re ready to train the mental side of your performance and find more freedom, confidence, and enjoyment in the process, book your free discovery call through my website.
Dr. Chantale Lussier