05/01/2021
When I discovered the music of Lenny Kravitz I was living for the first time completely on my own, no family, no roommates. It was a generally peaceful, relaxing and yes, at times, lonely but at least comfortable without many surprises on a day to day basis. That time is, definitely, a contrast to the present day whirling twister of life with family dynamics, economic upheavals and pandemics. And yet, while I am grateful for then, pray for the day when we as a society feel comfortable to give a stranger a hug again, and crave a few more hours of sleep every week, I prefer where I am now in the present moment.
I have always been more of a home body than a world traveler. My adventures were mediated through my eyes and mind to inform my heart and I surrounded myself with mementos of my life and the travel experiences I had up until that point. At the same time, I am, possibly in a contradictory sense, a culture geek, fascinated by how people create in community with one another to ground, experience and guide themselves when the happy equilibrium in their relational world is disrupted. Whenever my version of this equilibrium has been disrupted I am more aware of Lenny’s words in the tune “I Am Always On the Run” about life’s contradictions, the confusion it brings and yes, sometimes the sensation of just wanting to run away from it all. Part of the magic AHA moments I have had more recently is how these contradictions can find peaceful resolution, beginning with acceptance as the first step on the path to understanding. When I have tried it the other way around, believing I “should” or “need” to understand something before I can accept it, it doesn’t feel nearly as magical a process …
To deal with the cognitive dissonance associated with this observation and calm my mind, I started exploring the language of symbols and archetypes, found everywhere and anywhere - and that we create and tap into all the time. The photo I chose to use as my screen saver, earrings I choose to wear on a given day, the animals and plants I notice when outside, and characters I resonate with when reading a book or watching a movie, were all starting to permeate my awareness in new ways and helping me get in touch with an aspect of self and the goings on around me. The synchronicities started to come like a few drops of rain here and there until there was a gentle symphony of them raining steadily into my consciousness, followed by a period of cognitive revelation from the annals of my intuition, the way the sun after a storm brings a new lightness and clarity for the day. In this way, I started to find the answers to dilemmas from within while being gently prodded and guided by the symbols and archetypes reflected in my outer world.
And if that wasn’t cool enough, my intention of noticing and allowing symbols and archetypes to guide me, then led to deepening my relationship with them, and experiencing the life force they also hold. This may seem obvious when you start spending more time in nature with animals and plants, but the archetypes of "mythological" characters have their own life force too, infused by their original creators and continuously supported by anyone who then chooses to notice and be in relationship with them. When it is said that the” characters jump off of the page” of a book, I believe we as the reader become attuned to the life force the author used to dream and birth the characters, and then keep that life force flowing through our imaginations so that we can dream and manifest new creations. Once you start to be aware of participating in this process, reading a book or doing anything else, you start tapping into a whole new portal of intuitive guidance just for the fun, joy and miracles of everyday life.
To give an everyday example, I have a friend who names all of her gadgets from her car to her vacuum cleaner. The same way people talk to plants, she talks to her gadgets and in so doing gives them attention and more care than she might have otherwise done had they not been seen for their essential "character". Not only does she make mundane tasks fun this way, her gadgets rarely, if ever, break down on her or become “write-offs”.
I can’t say that I have mastered this second stage of noticing and exploring the magic of symbols and archetypes, but I can say that in my own relationships with my environment, I have moved from feeling reluctantly comfy about life unfolding without really knowing what comes next, to feeling curious and often delight about the prospect of letting life surprise me. I experience magic when synchronicities big and small register in my awareness. They keep me going forward without fully knowing, but trusting that it is my personally created and curated mystery with the universe that all works out in the end.
Photo: An alter I created from things that were dispersed around my home and that have special meaning as gifts from family and friends, from places travelled to and for how they ignite my senses.